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February 24th, 2009, 06:26 AM
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Okay ladies...My dh and I were not ttc last month. We aren't on any form of birth control. I don't chart. I just guestimate time of ovulation and we would avoid sex like the plague 5 days before I thought I would ovulate and 3 days after.

So I started af on January 29. My cycle since I've had Wyatt has been exactly 24 days long like clock work. So I should of started my period on Feb. 22. We only dtd on what I thought was 2/14 but it was actually 2/15. That would of been 8 DAYS after I should of ovulated. Although I do think I ovulated weird this month. I had some EWCM on 2/7 for sure and then off and on for like 5-6 days I think. I remember thinking this is weird.

Anyway...yesterday I wiped and had what looked like EWCM tinged with pink. Then NOTHING all day. I thought I was going to start. I put in a tampon and nothing....dry...no blood no pink no brown no anything. So this morning I started cramping and thought for sure this is it. Put in another tampon. I had a tiny bit of red blood. Like a drop. What the hell is wrong with me???

I don't think I'm pregnant. Like I said I would of had to ovulate extremely late. And I hope I'm not because when I miscarried I had this type of spotting 3 weeks before I lost the baby. But if by chance it is implantation bleeding how long before I can test? Is it 2 or 4 days??

And if I'm not when do I consider I started AF? When I spotted or when it's full blown? I'm running out to target today to buy the Clearblue easy Fertility Monitor for this cycle. I guess I'll grab a couple pregnancy tests as well.

I've been running everything through my head trying to figure out why I would have a delayed ovulation or AF. I wasn't sick and wasn't stressed during the ovulation time. And after ovulation I didn't think stress would cause AF to be late. I thought it was ovulate and then the LP period, then AF.

Any suggestions would be great!
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February 24th, 2009, 06:40 AM
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hmm -- that is very strange. I think with either days you've seen EWCM, you've been in the clear with DTD on the 15th. Did you DTD any other times this month? It could be just the start of AF. I know sometimes mine was so VERY light for sometimes 2-3 days, then would be heavy. W/out knowing your O date, IDK what day to tell you to test. If you O'd on the 7th (or around that date) a test would pick up pregnancy.

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February 24th, 2009, 06:42 AM
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I would test... You never know... You also could of ovulated twice.. once from each ovary, I know it is rare but it does happen. SO it might of been a day a two off.
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February 24th, 2009, 06:49 AM
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Not sure either. But I would test too.
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February 24th, 2009, 05:22 PM
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I swear I wish I had a crystal ball this is driving me nuts. I spotted again after I took the HPT. So I thought I was really starting AF but no. 6 hours later nothing. I even told dh to hold off on more tests. I have another craptastic EPT I'll take in the morning. I either want to be pregnant or start af I don't want to be in limbo.
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February 24th, 2009, 06:16 PM
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With my last pregnancy, I had spotting and cramps, about 9 days after a positive OPK.I thought that was strange too, so I took a FRER
and low and behold a BFP. You never know. You could have ovulated late. I say test again too, and I hope the confusion ends
for you soon. I know that it can be very frustrating.
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February 24th, 2009, 06:19 PM
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I think you should send DH for more tests! You could also be stressing about it and that's why AF is now 2 days late for you. I hope you're preggo Amanda!!!!
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