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March 2nd, 2009, 03:40 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Okay ladies....ummm..this is hard...
On Saturday I got AF at CD28. On Thursday Diego and I had a huge fight, which was all my fault, I'm not even going to lie about it. He says he wants to wait for a baby now, so as of this Sunday...I'll be back on the pill.
If you want me to step-down, I will....
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March 2nd, 2009, 04:59 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Texas
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oh honey, i'm so sorry about the fight with Diego! Big HUGS to you!!
I definitely vote for you to remain our host! Diego may change his mind about TTC timing, and besides, what would we do without you????
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March 2nd, 2009, 06:06 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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You don't need to step down! Lots of people go through periods of not trying during the whole journey.
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March 2nd, 2009, 06:08 AM
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Aww Jessica, I'm so sorry about the fight. I always feel some fights make our relationships stronger so hopefully you guys can work it out and he gets back on the same page as you.
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March 2nd, 2009, 06:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Texas
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awww, I'm so sorry Jess  ...maybe he will change his mind and you'll be back to trying. Don't get down, just keep things good w/him then maybe he'll change his mind.
You don't need to step down!! Stay here!
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March 2nd, 2009, 07:09 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Nebraska
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I'm sorry sweetie, and I totally agree with the other girls, Jess!! You're a great host!  Don't go ANYWHERE!!!!
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March 2nd, 2009, 07:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: So. California
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Oh honey, I am so sorry!
I would give Diego some time and see where that leads you.
As far as your being here, you are great, stay as long as you like! You are so wonderful and supportive to everyone, plus you are fun!
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March 2nd, 2009, 08:57 AM
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Awww honey, I am sorry Maybe he will rethink things I just wish I could give you big hugs 
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March 2nd, 2009, 10:36 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: MA
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I'm sorry about the fight, and about your TTC plans on hold
There's no need for you to step down though!
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March 2nd, 2009, 11:45 AM
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So sorry for the fight. I do not feel like you should step down either, but you also have to do what is right for you. If you want to stay that is great, as you have offered a lot of good advice and support to many. But if you want to step down, I would understand this too.
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March 2nd, 2009, 12:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry that you guys had a fight. Please stay on as co-host. We would be lost without you to guide us and keep us in line!
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March 2nd, 2009, 12:31 PM
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If we can't get rid of Red, Kelty and Danielle, I don't know where you think you are going! Please stay! So sorry about the fight.
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March 2nd, 2009, 05:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
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I'm sorry about the fight I don't know you very well, but I agree that going back on bc isn't a reason for you to step down as host.
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March 2nd, 2009, 05:34 PM
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Tristan's Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: TN
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I agree with all the other ladies. TTC can be very stressful on a relationship and there are likely to be times that it is best to shift the focus back to each other. We are here for you, and hope you will stay with us!
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March 3rd, 2009, 06:36 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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How are things going...We missed you in chat. Are you OK? thinking of you and hoping things are better 
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March 3rd, 2009, 07:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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HUGS girl, just try to talk it out!!!! i'm sure everything will work out and you'll be back to ttc. and don't step down at all!! HUGS
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March 3rd, 2009, 09:21 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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sorry sweetie..no need to step down we love you and support you!
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March 3rd, 2009, 12:30 PM
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I agree with everyone above!! Stay. sorry about the fight
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March 3rd, 2009, 02:01 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i am a little late replying to the first post, but I am just checking up on you to see if your doing ok! ??
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