Ladies....

Wee3monkeys · #1 March 3rd, 2009, 08:36 AM

I was messaging with Jess this morning, and she wanted me to tell you all that she's sorry she didn't make it to chat last night. She wasn't feeling well and had fallen asleep.

Along with that, she's feeling quite depressed over things w/ her relationship and not TTC'ing. I keep telling her things will work themselves out, and trying to perk her up; but I think she could really use some extra love and support from us right now.

I know she'll see this later, so sorry for outing you Jess; but love you girl, and wanted you to know that we're all here for you.

We've all experienced the ups and downs of TTCAL, and we're here to support you whether you're TTC this second or not. Hugs, sweetie, things will get better!

*SamF* · #2 March 3rd, 2009, 08:46 AM

Jess!!

tobynscarlett · #3 March 3rd, 2009, 08:50 AM

Jessica, we are all here for you sweetie. I know you are going through a hard time right now, but hopefully things will get better soon. I hate to say it, but I really have to wonder about a man who thinks TTC is just something you can turn off and on. Maybe this will give you two a chance to figure out where you both really stand on having a child- then when you start TTC again you will be in a healthy mindset TOGETHER!! It seems like he doesn't realize how hard this decision is and may not realize how serious it is to have a child. You can't give kids back just because you had a fight. Also, I am worried that he may be using this to get back at you because he got mad

Revenge is never a good thing in a relationship. What would he have done if you were already pregnant and still had the argument???

I am sorry, I am probably out of line in saying these things but I have been thinking about you. I know it would be very difficult for me to go back on BC after wanting tjo get pregnant so badly, I am sure this is hard for you.

Just know that no matter what decision you make we are here for you!!!

jmhick · #4 March 3rd, 2009, 08:50 AM

JESS!!! WE MISS YOU!!!!!!!!

..Penelope.. · #5 March 3rd, 2009, 04:22 PM

Thinking of you, Jess!

L-SBB · #6 March 3rd, 2009, 05:33 PM

aww Jess sweetie we're all here for you! Take whatever time you need to sort stuff out - but if you need us we're here just waiting to give you a hug or lend an ear (or shoulder).

KDD · #7 March 3rd, 2009, 07:19 PM

~Lynda~ · #8 March 4th, 2009, 05:07 AM

HUGS jess, just take the time you need girl. don't worry about your responsibilities here, you need to fix you first!!! we'll be here when you need us!!! HUGS I really hope you feel better soon hun!!!!

..Red.. · #9 March 4th, 2009, 06:39 AM

You know you're loved here, so it's all good. Yay!

madmum_sarah · #10 March 4th, 2009, 07:18 AM

oh jess

im so sorry you are going through this right now and for the fact im not around for you like i used to be but i wanted you to know i love you girl and pray things work out for you soon
xxx

Soape · #11 March 4th, 2009, 07:41 AM

Jess, I'm truly sorry that you are having to go through this hard time. It would break my heart if I couldn't continue this journey. I'm praying that you and DH can find a way through this hard time.

..Jessica.. · #12 March 4th, 2009, 03:31 PM

Hey ladies...

Thanks so much for the much needed support! I don't know where I'd be without all of you. Honestly!

DBF and I have worked things out and are back together, we broke up last week, which was the root of me being MIA. I was honestly so depressed, it's not even funny. So, we've decided to go back on BCP until further notice, and our TTC Journey has ended for now.

I hope you don't mind me sticking around as co-host?