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March 5th, 2009, 10:25 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okay, I wasnt even going to mention this. But it is just too weird. Okay.... I had that overwhelming urge to POAS this morning. I normally do it, and it normally hits me around this time I dont know why. But its okay because I always do it KNOWING it will be a BFN and it just helps me to hold out a few more days knowing that I wasted a test. Well I went and pee'd in the little cup (im 7DPO) and dipped the little test. And right away...like within 10 seconds maybe a 2nd line showed up. This is my first time EVER using the IC's and I know they are really sensitive (Ive read it detects as low as 10) but I also know they are infamous for evaps, right?
I didnt take a picture of it, it was sooo light a camera wouldnt even capture it. But it was there....like I said within 10 seconds and it is pink not grey. Im so confused!!!! Im only 7DPO for god sakes! So I go and google "BFP at 7DPO" and I found alot of girls who got a BFP at 7DPO, but it is very uncommen. I also looked through FF's HPT gallery and there were a ton in there too that looked just like mine.
Hmmmmm? Im SO confused to say the least! This would mean implantation would have had to occur at least 2 days ago right? At 5DPO? Thats just unbelievable. I dont know.
Please when you respond to this (im not trying to sound mean or anything-So please dont take it that way ive just been through a lot of heartbreak.) but please dont say Congrats unless you really feel it could be possible because im not taking it as a BFP at all. Im going to assume its a fluke or evap or something...UGH I dont know what to think. Im just so confused because A) It was pink...not gray. It showed up right away and C) IM ONLY 7DPO!! This is so weird.
Were leaving for our trip to Florida at 4am tomorrow morning, so I guess I could test again and update you girls before we leave.
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)  Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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March 5th, 2009, 01:54 PM
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TTCAL Co-Host
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Definitely test again, anything is possible. The pink is a good sign!! KUP on your progress and PLEASE whatever you do DON'T make us wait until you return from vacation!!!!  Good Luck Girl!!
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March 5th, 2009, 02:04 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 Don't make us wait. It could be for real, you never know. I tested at 11DPO, line was faint, but I didn't start getting implantion cramps until the next week...but I really don't know when that accurs - these ladies do, though  KUP!
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March 5th, 2009, 02:57 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Of course I wont make you guys wait!! I got talked into testing again when I get home from work lol So I will update you guys also when I get home! If its still really really light I will test again while im on vacation and update when I get back
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)  Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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March 5th, 2009, 03:37 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I've seen a number of women that have gotten bfps on 7dpo... many factors could be involved. You may have ovulated earlier than you are estimating, a sensitive test could pick up very low levels of hcg, implantation took place earlier than the average (7-10 dpo is an average, not the rule). This is exciting. I think your best bet is another test, and it may be negative this early if you don't use FMU...but, I'd still do it (We all know I don't listen to the little voices of reason) And, I'd definitely test in the AM before you leave. If hcg is present, you will start seeing a darker bfp relatively soon. I know this sounds silly, but, I'd still love to squint at a picture of your realllly faint line! I've found that if you take the picture farther away, so that it is in focus, then crop it and copy it to post, you'll get the best pic results! Pleeeeeeaaaasssss????? Let us obsess! G/L... I hope this is it!
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March 5th, 2009, 04:14 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okay so I tested again when I got home and the line is still there!! FAINT but still there just so you know my camera SUCKS so here is the best I could do, not sure if your gonna be able to see anything
And I tried an invert...not sure if you can see it here either!
Ill test again in the morning, if its darker ill post a pic but if not ill let you guys know that youll have to wait until I get back
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)  Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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March 5th, 2009, 04:21 PM
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ok so I'm not saying congrats yet but ANY line is always a good sign...and heck at 7DPO how could it be anything but incredibly faint anyway??
This looks incredibly promising so I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. YOU ABSOLUTELY have to test again with FMU (and run and post it to us so we can compare)...so get up at 3am!!
ohh testing the edit feature to say I just checked your chart out which looks AWESOME btw...and DPO4 looks like a potential implantation dip (anyone else want to give an opinion on that??) - they say DPO7 is more typical for implantation dip but that it can occur anytime between DPO4-DPO10...so if you did implant early you could be seeing a BFP really early at DPO7-8.
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March 5th, 2009, 04:42 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Yea, that is what some of the other ladies were saying on another board, that the 4DPO dip could have been implantation! I will definitely update you guys tomorrow!
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)  Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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March 5th, 2009, 04:57 PM
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Tristan's Mommy
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I really hope you see a line again tomorrow! KUP for sure
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March 5th, 2009, 07:30 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Can't wait to see the lines get darker. I'll check for your update first thing in the morning... I'm going to stalk your chart right now! If you had a 4dpo implantation, this is exactly when you'd start seeing a very faint line. Very cool. I've got everything crossed for you!
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March 5th, 2009, 10:20 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i got my postive at 7dpo so anything is possible!!
good luck i hope this is it
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March 6th, 2009, 04:50 AM
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Hey Ashley did you retest this morning?
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March 6th, 2009, 08:42 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Just chiming in to say I hope it's *it* and please keep us posted!
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March 17th, 2009, 08:31 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Ladies im sorry im so late updating you! I got another BFP that next day at 8DPO and then another at 12DPO and then BAM AF showed up at 14DPO so I had yet ANOTHER loss. My third. Its so heartbreaking to think that maybe ill never stay pregnant. We are taking a break for the next 2 cycles but I hope its okay with you guys if I still lurk and post occasionally until we start again.
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)  Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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March 17th, 2009, 08:57 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I’m so sorry! 
I understand taking a couple of months off, and yes please stay!!!
Are you seeing a OB or specialist yet? If you have had 3 losses you should qualify for an early referral to an RE.
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March 17th, 2009, 09:08 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Want2beamommy21
Ladies im sorry im so late updating you! I got another BFP that next day at 8DPO and then another at 12DPO and then BAM AF showed up at 14DPO so I had yet ANOTHER loss. My third. Its so heartbreaking to think that maybe ill never stay pregnant. We are taking a break for the next 2 cycles but I hope its okay with you guys if I still lurk and post occasionally until we start again.
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I'm sorry to hear that AF showed up.
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March 17th, 2009, 09:51 AM
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Tristan's Mommy
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I am so sorry! 3 early losses could be a progesterone/luteal phase issue... When you are ready, perhaps your doctor could look into supplements or something.
Of course you can stick around!
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March 17th, 2009, 12:05 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no! I'm so sorry. I think you should talk to a Dr about it.
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March 17th, 2009, 01:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh Ashley, I'm so sorry girl!!!!!
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March 17th, 2009, 01:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I just wanted to say my T & P's are with you. Hope it's a BFP. KUP.
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