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March 6th, 2009, 12:07 PM
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I just lost my bean on March 3rd he/she measured 9 weeks but there was no heartbeat. I am still very much sad and depressed but I am also anxious to get back at it and TTC. I had a D&C on the 3rd, I'm wondering how long it will take to get my first AF...we are going to start trying after that?
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March 6th, 2009, 02:35 PM
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very sorry to hear about your loss
these are a good group of girls to lean on when you need a shoulder
i've heard anywhere from 4-8 weeks being normal for a first AF after D/C, but i don't know from personal experience.
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March 6th, 2009, 03:39 PM
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so sorry for your loss...you're very welcome to join our crazy little TTC gang though!

I also had a d&c...it took 47 days for AF to return after the procedure, which is apparently a bit longer than normal (normal is more like 4-7 weeks), but everyone's different and some of the ladies here got theirs back closer to their normal cycle schedule. Good luck and I hope you don't have to wait too long for AF...
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March 6th, 2009, 03:39 PM
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so sorry for your loss...you're very welcome to join our crazy little TTC gang though!

I also had a d&c...it took 47 days for AF to return after the procedure, which is apparently a bit longer than normal (normal is more like 4-7 weeks), but everyone's different and some of the ladies here got theirs back closer to their normal cycle schedule. Good luck and I hope you don't have to wait too long for AF...
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March 6th, 2009, 04:55 PM
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Welcome, the ladies here are great.
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March 6th, 2009, 05:10 PM
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Hi, I am Heather one of the co-hosts on this board. We sadly welcome you and I just want to say that I am so sorry for your loss. I got AF back about 4 weeks after my d&c, but I know some girls have waited much longer. It's a hard road to travel, but you have found some great road-trip buddies here- feel free to just jump right in!!!
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March 7th, 2009, 05:29 AM
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I'm sorry for your lose. It sucks to see new people coming over here. I got my AF 33 days after my D&E. I hope you get your soon.
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March 7th, 2009, 08:17 AM
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I'm so sorry about your loss. I didn't have a D&C but I wanted to welcome you to our group. You will find a lot of support (and some laughs) here.
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March 7th, 2009, 01:45 PM
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Hi!
I just had a D&C done on the 19th of feb and am also waiting for AF to pay me a visit so we can start trying again. It's only been 2 weeks for me, but feels waaaay longer!
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March 7th, 2009, 01:52 PM
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So sorry for your loss. You have a great group of ladies on here. So welcome. I had me D/E on the 6th of Feb.. it has been 29 days and I am still waiting.. and hopping for AF to show up.
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So sorry for your loss. You have a great group of ladies on here. So welcome. I had me D/E on the 6th of Feb.. it has been 29 days and I am still waiting.. and hopping for AF to show up.
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So sorry for your loss. You have a great group of ladies on here. So welcome. I had me D/E on the 6th of Feb.. it has been 29 days and I am still waiting.. and hopping for AF to show up.
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