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March 7th, 2009, 01:38 PM
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Well it is now 29 days after my D/E and I am still waiting for AF. I was hoping that I would be back to schedule.. I know very unlikely, but I was wishing! So now I feel so disappointed! I could just cry! I want to start trying again. I know I shouldn't of gotten my hopes up to have AF come on day 28 like my usuall cycle, but having that hope has gotten me through the last few weeks. Now I just sit here. I know it will come... but I wanted it yesterday.
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March 7th, 2009, 01:43 PM
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I am sorry  You know, when disappointment hits me hard like that I just go ahead and have a good cry. Tears can be very therapeutic and can release some of the frustration. I hope you get AF very soon honey.
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March 7th, 2009, 01:47 PM
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I'm sorry that AF didn't show on time. It took me about 39 days for AF to come back after a natural miscarriage. I hope that she shows her ugly face soon so you can get back to TTC! (((HUGS)))
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March 7th, 2009, 05:06 PM
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Hang in there. I had a natural miscarriage on 2/7/09, and I am still waiting for my AF too. It can be pretty frustrating, as I too, had, pretty regular cycles (almost always 28-30 days). I guess we just have too wait it out and try to relax. (Yeah, I know easier said then done) Hopefully she'll be here soon.
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March 7th, 2009, 05:36 PM
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i'm sorry hun!!!! i hope she comes very very soon, so you can get back on track!!!!
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March 7th, 2009, 06:23 PM
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I'm sorry! I know how frustrating it is. I just got AF, 33 days after my D&E. MY normal cycles are about 31-32 days long. I hope your shows soon!
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March 7th, 2009, 07:09 PM
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I know how that feels. A lot of us do. I agree that a good cry can be very helpful. I hope she shows up and you get back to ttc asap. Hugs are coming your way!
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March 7th, 2009, 07:40 PM
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Karyn.... Dealing and hoping for the same things right now!! I know how frustrating it is...Just wanted give ya a 
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March 7th, 2009, 07:42 PM
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aww Kary I can definitely relate to that frustration...m/c makes you feel like your body has betrayed you anyway (or at least that's how I felt) and then when it doesn't get back to normal right away you start to obsess about it (or at least I did). I hope your AF comes soon so it'll be one less thing for you to worry about. HUGS!
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March 7th, 2009, 08:08 PM
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I'm sorry, hon I hope AF comes soon and you can keep your mind off of it in the meantime. *HUGS*
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March 7th, 2009, 09:01 PM
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Aww, I know how you feel. It took me 69 days before I Oed, following my m/c 12/27. I hope the  shows her face so you can begin ttc again.
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March 7th, 2009, 09:41 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by L-SBB
aww Kary I can definitely relate to that frustration...m/c makes you feel like your body has betrayed you anyway (or at least that's how I felt) and then when it doesn't get back to normal right away you start to obsess about it (or at least I did). I hope your AF comes soon so it'll be one less thing for you to worry about. HUGS!
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Yes I have to admit betrayed and odsessed are exactaly how I feel.
And To all, Thank You for again making feel not so alone! I know we have all went through this, but It is allways nice to hear that you are not alone in how you feel.
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March 8th, 2009, 07:15 AM
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Hang in there, i know its very frustrating. I am in the same situation. D&C Jan 15 and still no AF 7 1/2 weeks later. I've been charting and am on cycle day 53 and still haven't even o'ed.
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