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March 9th, 2009, 03:39 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
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Hey Gals! I have been lurking for a while and don't know why but nervous about joining you all but now I would love to if I can. My name is Hannah, married to Jack for 5 years. We have a DS, KJ, 17 months. I recently had a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks mid February and still going through all that goes with it. I bled for a week, then nothing for another, then started up again last week mounting until Sat night when I was going through more than a pad an hour with lots of clots. We went back to the hospital and was given the same meds I had in the first place to get all the clots and tissue out. If this doesn't work, he said we could do a D&C from there. So, here I am. Still confused and hurting at the constant reminder of our precious baby. You all seem great and I am really looking forward to getting to know you all!
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March 9th, 2009, 03:57 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1,992
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Welcome to TTCAL, Hannah. I am so sorry for your loss. My name is Laurie and I have a four year old son named Connor. My daughter, Eva, was born still last June and I had a ruptured ectopic in December. Hopefully you will get a speedy & sticky bfp!
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March 9th, 2009, 03:59 PM
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Hi-Tech Hippie
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Richland, WA
Posts: 6,038
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I am so sorry for your loss! Welcome! My name is Karissa, DH is Dave and we are TTC #2 after a loss in Dec at 10 1/2 wks. We have a DD, Tanith, who is 22 mos. Start posting away! We' are a little crazy around here, but fun!
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March 9th, 2009, 04:16 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 7,638
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Hi Hannah! Welcome to the group...very sorry both for your loss and the stress of dealing with a missed m/c. Don't hesitate to let us know when you need a little extra support as you go through this...the m/c process can feel really lonely but we're all here for you whenever you need us.
BIG HUGS!
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March 9th, 2009, 04:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: So. California
Posts: 5,770
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Hi Hannah I am sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you feel at home here.
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March 9th, 2009, 04:23 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Somerville, Ma
Posts: 788
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Hi Hannah. Welcome to our wonderful board. I am sorry for your loss. You will love it here. We have all been through it at some point. It is a great place for comfort and friendships.
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March 9th, 2009, 04:23 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Somerville, Ma
Posts: 788
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Hi Hannah. Welcome to our wonderful board. I am sorry for your loss. You will love it here. We have all been through it at some point. It is a great place for comfort and friendships.
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March 9th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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Hi Hannah... So sorry about you loss.. I'm Kary (33) I am 31 day post d/e from my m/c on the 29th of Jan. I have one son CJ 18 yo. DH are ttc #1 together, with two losses since Nov. Welcome!
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March 9th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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Hi Hannah... So sorry about you loss.. I'm Kary (33) I am 31 day post d/e from my m/c on the 29th of Jan. I have one son CJ 18 yo. DH are ttc #1 together, with two losses since Nov. Welcome!
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March 9th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Somerville, Ma
Posts: 788
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Hi Hannah. Welcome to our wonderful board. I am sorry for your loss. You will love it here. We have all been through it at some point. It is a great place for comfort and friendships.
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March 9th, 2009, 04:29 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
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 I'm so sorry for your loss 
I'm Penelope...DB is J. We lost our first baby on January 17, but didn't find out until Feb 7. We are currently WTTC until July or August.
KJ is adorable  Looking forward to getting to know you!
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March 9th, 2009, 04:35 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 165
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So sorry you have to go through this too, but I think you will find the ladies on this board very welcoming and supportive. I pray that your body heals soon, and you start feeling better. Welcome to the board.
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March 9th, 2009, 05:07 PM
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Proud Momma
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Posts: 3,785
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Hi Hannah, sorry to have to welcome you to this board.
I'm Stephanie and I'm new to this board as well. My daughter Katrina was born sleeping August 9/08. My husband and I have been TTC for a few months now.
Everyone here has been so great and supportive!
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March 9th, 2009, 07:34 PM
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TTCAL Co-Host
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 910
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Hi Hannah!!! We are sad to have to welcome you to this board, but so happy that you have found such a great place to find comfort and support!!! I am Heather, one of the co-hosts here. I have two kids Connor, 20 months, and Madison, almost 3. We lost our son Zachary on Dec 17,2008 ,when I was 17 weeks pregnant. I was induced and he was stillborn after finding no heartbeat. I had to have a D&C after he was born due to retained placenta. Please feel free to jump right in and start posting- we are eager to learn more about you!! I am so sorry for your loss, it must be very difficult to be dealing with this for such a long time with the bleeding continuing.
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March 9th, 2009, 08:18 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 1,137
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Welcome, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I had a missed m/c at 10 weeks in February. I hope the meds work, KUP.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.
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March 9th, 2009, 09:29 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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Welcome to the board, Hannah!
I'm very sorry for your loss!!!! M/C is not easy!!!
I hope you stick around and find the support you need here!!!
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March 10th, 2009, 04:36 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Missouri
Posts: 1,862
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I'm sorry for your loss. The girls here are great.
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March 10th, 2009, 04:40 AM
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Long Island, NY
Posts: 6,082
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Hi Hannah. So sorry for your loss. I hope the meds you were given work for you. I'm Lynda (29) and I m/c in Dec. after about 6 weeks.
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March 10th, 2009, 07:07 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,285
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Hi Hannah, Glad you decided to come out of lurkedom.
I'm so sorry about your loss, but this is a great place to be for support.
Look forward to getting to know you.
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March 10th, 2009, 05:35 PM
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Tristan's Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: TN
Posts: 609
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Welcome to TTCAL. The ladies here are wonderful!
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