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March 11th, 2009, 11:15 AM
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Oh my God. I just took a cheap midstream HPT and there is a faint but distinct line. I am freaking out. The reason I took one today is because I have been feeling crampy and my skin is breaking out. (which is not normal before AF but happened before my other pregnancies) I have no idea how many dpo I am b/c I don't chart and its been 33 days since my miscarriage. My husband and I only BD once, and it was only 3 days after spotting stopped so I didn't think we needed protection as we were going to wait 1 cycle to TTC again. I am really really scared as I haven't been taking the best care of myself as feeling depressed since miscarriage. Oh, and I don't think its leftover Hcg because I poas 3/1 with FRER with FMU and it was a stark white BFN.
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March 11th, 2009, 11:22 AM
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Don't freak out!! It will be okay. If your FRER was BFN on 3/1 I would agree it's not leftover HCG. And as for not taking care of yourself...as long as you aren't doing hard drugs I think you'll be okay there. Take a deep breath. And CONGRATS!!!
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March 11th, 2009, 11:43 AM
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Okay I just called the doctor and she's on vacation till next week. So I asked the secretary for a beta Hcg and a serum progesterone test, and she will ask the other doctor in her practice for the orders. I guess I'll just have to wait to know what the heck is going on, and Ill probably keep POAS like a maniac until I know anything!
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March 11th, 2009, 12:02 PM
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OMG!! I really hope this is it! And like Amanda said, unless you have been doing crack, your OK, remember up until week for the baby is completely separate from you.
GO POAS again!!!! You are at your most fertile after a m/c!
Tentative CONGRATS!!!
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March 11th, 2009, 12:20 PM
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WOW!!! I hope you get the results that you want from the Dr ordered tests. Be sure to keep us posted on your progress!!!
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March 11th, 2009, 12:21 PM
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Congratulations! Be sure to let us know what the blood tests say.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.
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March 11th, 2009, 12:29 PM
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Ohhh how exciting, don't worry about not taking care of yourself, you can start now!
We also conceived right after our miscarriage, so now we are just on for the ride hoping the little bean sticks, but for the record my OB said there is no additional risk to getting pregnant right away if your body is ready, it's ready!
I was shocked too, but in a good way!
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March 11th, 2009, 12:44 PM
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WOW, I hope this is it for you! KUP..... and ah Pics? I love to see pics..... show us pics!
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March 11th, 2009, 12:48 PM
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Congrats! Don't worry about not taking care of yourself, you can start right now! KUP on what goes on with the blood tests.
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March 11th, 2009, 12:57 PM
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I would like to show you pics as I am sure I will be comparing them for awhile, but I don't know how to post them. I am afraid to ask my DH because he may have me comitted if he found out I was trying to post HPT sticks on the internet. Men just do not understand these things.
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March 11th, 2009, 01:02 PM
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LOL.... Yea your right they just don't get it!!!
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March 11th, 2009, 01:15 PM
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Hope you get confirmation with the blood test. that would be great!!!
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March 11th, 2009, 01:23 PM
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You can actually go to photobucket and make an account. Then just upload and take the code for boards and attach it to a post. I would love to see. And by the way when I started coming to the board my dh thought I was nuts. Now he asks what is going on my "mommy boards"
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March 11th, 2009, 02:02 PM
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I think we've all been committed by our DH's! 
I can't wait to hear the news from your doc's office!!!!
I'm so happy for you!!! Congratulations!!! 
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March 11th, 2009, 02:02 PM
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I think we've all been committed by our DH's!
I can't wait to hear the news from your doc's office!!!!
I'm so happy for you!!! Congratulations!!!
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March 11th, 2009, 02:34 PM
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LOL! They don't understand at all. Congrats to you!
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March 11th, 2009, 02:36 PM
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Yea for your 
I hope you get the confirmation quickly!
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March 11th, 2009, 02:50 PM
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I still don't believe this. I just peed on another test a (FRER) and the line game up in 15 seconds. I wouldn't even call it faint, but its lighter then the control line.
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March 11th, 2009, 02:50 PM
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I still don't believe this. I just peed on another test a (FRER) and the line game up in 15 seconds. I wouldn't even call it faint, but its lighter then the control line.
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March 11th, 2009, 04:10 PM
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Congratulations, Dinah!!! Go to www.photobucket.com and upload the pics. It is very easy to get the code and post them. I can't wait to see!!! Good luck.
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