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March 13th, 2009, 05:02 AM
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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And I got a BFN. It is still early (I was wrong about my dpo, it is actually 9-10 dpo) but it still stings. I'm going to test again on Monday if AF doesn't show (haven't seen the  since my m/c on 12/27). Ugh.
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March 13th, 2009, 06:12 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Sorry Lynda 
BFN's are hard no matter how early you get them.
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March 13th, 2009, 07:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry. Like you said it's early! Stay away AF!!!!
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March 13th, 2009, 08:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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sorry..i hope its too early
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March 13th, 2009, 09:35 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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HUGS Lynda...that's really early so try not to let it get you down. FF had a little link for me this morning to a mini-lecture on why they recommend not testing early  complete with their analysis of how many women get false negatives by day leading up to and past AF being due...all of this culminating in their recommendation of why we should wait until like 2 days past AF to do first HPT.
Ok I know none of us will take this advice...but hopefully it makes you feel a little better that FF consider DPO10 WAY too early to test. HUGS
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March 13th, 2009, 10:34 AM
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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Thanks Lara. I think everything is starting to get to me: First and foremost, the miscarriage on 12/27. Then, no AF in January, February, or March. I finally Oed last Wednesday. I have just been so emotional the last few days and just seeing that stark white HPT just hit home.
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March 13th, 2009, 12:18 PM
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YEAH, it's like we love to punish ourselves by testing too early and then get disappointed all in the hopes that the next test will be THE ONE!!! I am sorry, maybe you are too early. If anything, at least you know you o'ed and you can expect AF soon if your cycles are evening out.
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March 13th, 2009, 02:33 PM
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Veteran
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I am so sorry for the BFN's. I know even when you may expect them it can still be disappointing, but 10dpo is still early for most women's BFP's to show up so don't give up.
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March 13th, 2009, 08:42 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry for that BFN.... You always hold hope that you will get a BFP.. But hold on.. your still very early!
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March 14th, 2009, 11:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I hope you get your long awaited  this cycle!!!!
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March 14th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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Thanks all! I am going to try testing again if AF doesn't get here on Monday. I am cramping so I think AF is on her way though.
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March 14th, 2009, 12:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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sorry about the bfn hun, i hope the retest brings you a POSITIVE!!! KUP and G/L
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March 14th, 2009, 02:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry it was a BFN. They are such mood killers. I hope that you just tested too early.
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March 14th, 2009, 05:14 PM
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Sorry! You never know, AF might not show up and you'll get the BFP soon.
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March 14th, 2009, 10:10 PM
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Proud Momma
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might just be too early still. hope you get a BFP!
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March 15th, 2009, 07:57 AM
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Keep us posted...I hope you get your BFP tomorrow!
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March 15th, 2009, 08:13 AM
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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Thank you all  I will KUP when I test tomorrow. I'm hoping it won't be another BFN!
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March 15th, 2009, 08:20 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I hope you get your BFP in the next few days. As disappointing as it will be if AF shows up at least it means your long cycle is over and you can move into next month ready for a more normal cycle.
I do hope you get your BFP monday and don't have to worry about all that!!
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March 15th, 2009, 10:27 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry about the BFN Good luck!
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