[ThankingGOD4my2girls]

My emotions are running so high today and I want to just cry. I tested three times today (i know 3 times is alot) but I wanted to see If I could at least get a faint line but it was a BFN. My hubby and I started TTC this month and after having a miscarriage in December I am totally worried about every pain that I get. I am 10 DPO and I am totally about to just scream cause I am so scared. My right side is hurting like it did when I found out I was pregnant in December. I havent had any of the spotting like I did in Dec. but I have been cramping alot. It doesnt feel like AF cramping but who knows it could be. I dont have any other AF symptoms. I am not due for AF until the 24 which is in 6 days. I dont want to feel this way.

[..Jessica..]

Give it another 3 or 4 days before re-testing. I hope this is it for you sweetie!!!

[mlyster]

I agree. Try not to stress about it. It just might be too early to get even a faint line. Try and hold out a few more days before testing again so you don't drive yourself crazy. I can relate to the every pain feeling like a pregnancy symptom but have decided I am not going to test for another 3 weeks (even though I am probably able to test in 7 days or so). I just don't want to stress about and as hard as it is I am not letting myself test early (don't want to be disappointed by a BFN).

Hope you get your BFP in few days!!

[tobynscarlett]

I know you are completely frustrated right now- my advice is: Just sit down and have a good cry!!! You can't change anything this month (good or bad) but you CAN release some of that stress. You have been through a lot and you deserve a good cry. Don't lose hope though, you could still get that BFP this month- and if not you get one more cycle to get your body ready again. It could be that reframing the situation in your mind may help. Just think of it as another month to get healthier if you don't get that BFP now!!

[heathernoell6]

A cry is so nice sometimes. I hope that you get your bfp in a few days...remember the box says that only 45% get a bfp 4-5 days before a missed period, 63% 3 days, 83% 2 days, 93% 1 day before and 99% day of. The odds are that you are testing too early. (I am trying to convince myself of the same things as I tested twice today and af is due Sun or Mon ) Good luck honey. Big hugs!!!

[ThankingGOD4my2girls]

Thank you all for your advice and support it means alot to me and I hope you all can get your BFP's soon to.

[..Penelope..]

Originally Posted by tobynscarlett

I know you are completely frustrated right now- my advice is: Just sit down and have a good cry!!! You can't change anything this month (good or bad) but you CAN release some of that stress. You have been through a lot and you deserve a good cry. Don't lose hope though, you could still get that BFP this month- and if not you get one more cycle to get your body ready again. It could be that reframing the situation in your mind may help. Just think of it as another month to get healthier if you don't get that BFP now!!

*HUGS*

[LissaDawn]

Hang in there and give it a few days. Sometimes 10dpo is too early. I hope you get your BFP!

[Trish36]

It may be too soon for a BFP to show up. wait a few days and test again. Hope this is your month!

[ThankingGOD4my2girls]

well guys I did retest today and I had a faint line so I did another thinking I was just seeing things and there was another faint line so I freaked out and I went to my DR's office cause I was cramping and I was afraid. Every since the M/C I freak out at every cramp I get. But anyway, My Dr's nurse sent me for a blood pregnancy test and I was a BFN so I guess the results I got on the HPT's this morning were evap lines. My Dr said not to give up cause I could still be Pregnant cause I havent miss AF Yet she isnt due till 24th or 25th. He said that I may have ovulated later then I thought and My cramping could be implantation cramping and I may be too early for the blood test to show positive. Has anyone here ever gotten a HPT to come out Positive and then a Blood test to come out negative and still be pregnant or do you think it was just evap lines on the HPT. I am going to try to be patient and give it until at least the 26th and if AF hasnt shown by then I will test. I am so tired of seeing BFN's.

[LissaDawn]

What kind of HPT are you using? It is possible that the blood test was looking for a higher HCG level than a very very sensitive test might pickup. How many minutes did it take for the BFP to show up on the HPT?

[Kary♥RN]

So Sorry you are going through this rollercoaster of emotion, I say wait a few more days.. It may still be too early.