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March 20th, 2009, 03:08 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: NJ
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Hi, I'm new here. I had a missed m/c last month and a D&C on 2-14. I was 11 weeks along. The baby had no H/B at our regular appointment. It was a complete shock. I've had 5 healthy full term pregnancies. My ob said we can try ASAP with my history. I'm now 12DPO. (I used OPK's) Today was a BFN w/ FRER & FMU. I'm still holding out for that + test 
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Chrissy - Mommy to 5 kiddos
DS - 2-16-95
DS - 8-7-96
DS - 9-18-03
DD - 3-5-05
DS - 9-7-07
DS - 3-24-10
m/c 2-14-09 Job Andrew @ 11 wks - EDD 9/3/09
m/c 5-19-09 @ 5 wks 6 days - EDD 1/13/10
It's a BOY!! - Matthew Malachi - EDD 5-5-10 - pProm 2-10-10 @ 28 weeks - Born 3-24-10 - 6 weeks early & 6 weeks after my water broke! 5lbs. 17 3/4"
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March 20th, 2009, 04:52 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 1,708
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I am so sorry to hear of you loss I know how emotional a Miscarriage is. I miscarried in December of 2008. I hope you get your BFP this month.
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March 20th, 2009, 04:54 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 7,638
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welcome Chrissy! Very sorry for your loss...but I hope this is your lucky cycle and you get that BFP!!
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March 20th, 2009, 05:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,829
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Hi, Chrissy!  I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby 
Looking forward to getting to know you  Good luck with your BFP!
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March 20th, 2009, 05:29 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 165
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I am so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage in early February too. I never thought it would happen to me either and was very shocked. I wish you good luck, good health, and a BFP very soon, and welcome to the board.
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March 20th, 2009, 06:04 PM
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TTCAL Co-Host
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 910
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Hi Chrissy, welcome to the board. This is a great group of ladies and you will love it here. Please jump right in, we can't wait to get to know you better!!!
Heather
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March 20th, 2009, 07:20 PM
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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I'm sorry for your loss. I also had a missed miscarriage after 3 perfect pregnancies, so I know how you feel. Good luck ttc and maybe you'll end up on the Dec. DDC.
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March 20th, 2009, 09:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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Welcome aboard, Chrissy!!!!
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss!!!!!
I hope you get a beautiful  in a few days and your baby sticks!
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March 21st, 2009, 04:37 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: NJ
Posts: 699
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Thank you everyone for the warm welcome. I am so in love with this message board. I've been to others but they didn't have much going on. Here there are so many topics & mommies........love it
Losing my baby was a very sad moment for my entire family. We all grieved the loss. But I believe all things happen for a reason....some we are not meant to know. My sweet baby is waiting for me in heaven.
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Chrissy - Mommy to 5 kiddos
DS - 2-16-95
DS - 8-7-96
DS - 9-18-03
DD - 3-5-05
DS - 9-7-07
DS - 3-24-10
m/c 2-14-09 Job Andrew @ 11 wks - EDD 9/3/09
m/c 5-19-09 @ 5 wks 6 days - EDD 1/13/10
It's a BOY!! - Matthew Malachi - EDD 5-5-10 - pProm 2-10-10 @ 28 weeks - Born 3-24-10 - 6 weeks early & 6 weeks after my water broke! 5lbs. 17 3/4"
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March 21st, 2009, 06:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 4,213
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Welcome Chrissy! I am so sorry for your loss. I had a m/c last Oct. I have three children and thought I was "safe" once we saw the h/b at 6 weeks. The loss was devastating. I hurt for anyone who has to go through a loss. You've found a wonderful group of women here...without them, this whole process would have been soooo much harder for me. The ladies are great listeners, really funny, and have tons of compassion. I think that's why I never want to stray very far from the ladies of TTCAL. I can't wait to get to know you better. 5 kiddos...that is awesome! I hope your BFP shows up very soon! KUP
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March 21st, 2009, 09:36 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: NJ
Posts: 699
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Thanks klt. Everyone here seems so nice. I'm looking forward to getting to know everyone too.
AF has just started Hopefully we'll have a luck next cycle and get a Christmas baby
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Chrissy - Mommy to 5 kiddos
DS - 2-16-95
DS - 8-7-96
DS - 9-18-03
DD - 3-5-05
DS - 9-7-07
DS - 3-24-10
m/c 2-14-09 Job Andrew @ 11 wks - EDD 9/3/09
m/c 5-19-09 @ 5 wks 6 days - EDD 1/13/10
It's a BOY!! - Matthew Malachi - EDD 5-5-10 - pProm 2-10-10 @ 28 weeks - Born 3-24-10 - 6 weeks early & 6 weeks after my water broke! 5lbs. 17 3/4"
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March 21st, 2009, 09:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1,992
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Sorry I missed this earlier! I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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March 21st, 2009, 10:32 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: WA
Posts: 2,361
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Welcome and sorry to hear about your loss. I also had a missed miscarriage in Feb, D&C on Feb 19. I would have been 8 weeks at that time. Hope you enjoy it here...these ladies are great! 
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March 21st, 2009, 10:36 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: ontario, canada
Posts: 1,168
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welcome and i'm very sorry for your loss i'm new here too and so far it's the best group i've been too hope you stick and we get to know each other
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March 21st, 2009, 05:25 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 1,137
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Welcome to the board.
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Kimberly, wife to Jamie
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.
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March 21st, 2009, 10:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I lost my heartbeat on Jan 29th and my d/e was 2/6.
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March 22nd, 2009, 01:48 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Somerville, Ma
Posts: 788
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Welcome to this wonderful board. I am so sorry for your loss. I had two healthy pregnancies and thought we were safe in Oct 08. When we suffered our loss, I was absolutely lost. I am sooooo glad you found us. I hope that we all get our bfps very very soon. Welcome again.
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March 22nd, 2009, 04:09 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: NJ
Posts: 699
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The worst part of the loss was how unexpected it was!! No spotting, no cramping, NOTHING!! Then to see the doc's face as he was doing the u/s. I just *knew* somthing was wrong What an empty feeling I had leaving the office. PTL I had awesome support from family & church to get me through!!
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Chrissy - Mommy to 5 kiddos
DS - 2-16-95
DS - 8-7-96
DS - 9-18-03
DD - 3-5-05
DS - 9-7-07
DS - 3-24-10
m/c 2-14-09 Job Andrew @ 11 wks - EDD 9/3/09
m/c 5-19-09 @ 5 wks 6 days - EDD 1/13/10
It's a BOY!! - Matthew Malachi - EDD 5-5-10 - pProm 2-10-10 @ 28 weeks - Born 3-24-10 - 6 weeks early & 6 weeks after my water broke! 5lbs. 17 3/4"
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March 22nd, 2009, 07:52 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Guysville, Ohio
Posts: 681
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Welcome. So sorry for your loss.
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