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Seizetheday · #1 March 21st, 2009, 09:59 PM

Hello, i am new here. Looking for a place to vent... 28 years old.. one loss 7 weeks 4 days but did not find out until 10 weeks..12/11/08 ..D&C..12/12/08.. three cycles later still not Preg..so here i am. I will not post abut but just reading everyone's messages makes me feel like i am not a crazy person.

V

Kary♥RN · #2 March 21st, 2009, 10:02 PM

Welcome to the board V, I am so sorry for your loss. You are not crazy.. even though we all feel like we are. You are among women who know how you feel.

Seizetheday · #3 March 21st, 2009, 10:05 PM

Thanks.. it makes it worse because literally everyone and thier sister (and even my sister) are preg..i am happy for them, yet sad/ frustated for me

Kary♥RN · #4 March 21st, 2009, 10:14 PM

OH don't even get me started! I know what you mean. I had a chemical pregnancy in Nov. Within 3 days my dh best friend and his wife call and say they are expecting. At work.. so many women are pregnant... Than my kicker.. at Christmas my SIL and brother tell the family they are expecting. I am still upset with my loss in Nov.. SO this is hard for me to hear.. Little did I know I was pregnant. I got my bfp on Jan 2nd. I was only 2 1/2 weeks behind my SIL.. Than I m/c. It hurts so bad. I saw her for the first time on tues with her baby bump.. Now I have to spend the next two days at a funeral with her while every one rubs her belly, and my little girl is gone. SO FRUSTRATING!

Seizetheday · #5 March 21st, 2009, 10:18 PM

Yes it is.. my very good friend was having probems geting preg.. and just found out she is due in july....( i was due 7/15/09 also Dh's b-day).. the fact that she did not know she was preg for 5 months confuses me anyway....i cant even get into that.lol the docs kept telling her no,no,no but she was...ao iam totally dreding holding her new baby when it should be MINE

Kary♥RN · #6 March 21st, 2009, 10:27 PM

Oh I so hear you! Oh I hope you get your BFP soon! I am dreading the babyshowers. I know I am going to have to be included in the planning and set up since it is my SIL. And the day I was going in for my d/e a mutual friend of my DH friends called to start on the baby shower for his friends wife. I did tell my dh I would not be included in that. I will go.. but I cant be involved! We went out to breakfast today (just to local diner) and they were having a babyshower. I didn't want to stay.. I just watched all the baby presents comming in.. TG I wasn't thier when the mom-to-be came in.

heathernoell6 · #7 March 22nd, 2009, 01:15 AM

Oh honey. We all completely understand. When I miscarried, we were at my df's neices' house. She had just told me that she and her dh were going to ttc...she didn't know. Well, as the mc went on, she knew and felt horrible. That was in late October. While df and I were on vacation in El Salvador, his family mentioned that she was 9wks pg. I was devistated. I asked df why he didn't tell me, and he said that he didn't want to upset me. I understand, but I still can't be happy for them, as much as I try. It is sooooo hard. It has been almost 5 mos since our loss and I thought for sure we would be pg again. {{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}} We are all here for you.

..Penelope.. · #8 March 22nd, 2009, 08:47 AM

Hi! I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby

I'm Penelope, and DB and I have one angel. We are WTTC until June.

I understand how you're feeling. I haven't started my TTC journey yet, but it's still hard to see everyone around me getting what I want most. I hope that being here helps you through the tough times, and that you get your BFP soon!

*HUGS*