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March 27th, 2009, 12:00 PM
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Well I've been on these boards since 2007 but mostly posted in my playroom and DDC Sept. 2009. I got pregnant with #3 in December (not trying at all, though I wanted it since October) and miscarried January 20th at almost 6 weeks. I passed the baby after about 3 days of bleeding and bled a couple more days after that. It seems AF went back on a regular schedule though because the last one was Feb 21st and I was waiting for her to show about the 23rd of March but no show!!  We've been trying for two cycles and I'm hopeful still. I had a blood test the other day at 13 dpo and it was negative but I'm thinking since I'm such a late O'r (cycle day 20) that I may of implanted late as well and it was just too early. AF is 4 days late as of today and still no BFP but I know on fertility friend a lot of late O'rs don't get their BFP until 16-22 dpo. So, I guess I'm still in the game? I hope so anyway... feel free to look at my chart and give me your opinion though
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March 27th, 2009, 12:28 PM
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Mom of 4
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welcome and sorry for your loss! I hope you get your BFP. Sending baby sticky dust your way. KUP.
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March 27th, 2009, 01:14 PM
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Thanks. Yeah I guess I'm totally confused because I got a BFN blood test at 13 dpo, then yesterday a super faint BFP with FRER and then today got 2 BFN's with Equate. Ugh, I hate this stupid rollercoaster.
Here's the pic from the faint BFP, though its a bad one because my camera was so blurry and it was already super faint anyway!!
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March 27th, 2009, 02:04 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I see a faint line. And I'm not sure about charting...I don't chart yet. Good luck though and I'm sorry for your loss.
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March 27th, 2009, 02:09 PM
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Welcome to the board! I remember you from my brief visit to Sept DDC, but you changed your screen name!
I can see the faint line too. I hope you get another BFP, I would try another FRER.
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March 27th, 2009, 02:27 PM
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Hi!!!  Yeah, I had to change my screen name...for some reason after the board changed over my old one looked strange because of the & symbol...it was weird and I couldn't stand trying to log in with the weird symbols..lol. Thanks for the BFP dust, I'm really needing it right now. Think I'm going to wait until Sunday to test again, and then go Wednesday to get another HCG draw. By then I'll be 20 dpo so it should be a lot higher than it was when I was 13.  Hopefully anyway. I'm on my 15th high temp so from what Ive read, three more would be an excellent sign
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March 27th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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Your temps are still up and FF suggests that you test in 4 days. I'd wait to test again and I would use a FRER.
Good luck!
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March 27th, 2009, 04:53 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I can see the faint line. I'd get another brand and test in a few days. (OK, I admit it, I'm a POAS addict. I'd actually get a bunch of tests and test everyday.  ) But, you have unbelievable willpower! I can't wait to hear the results when you test again. I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope that your BFP is here quickly. I look forward to getting to know you! Equate is said to pick up levels of Hcg that are 25 or higher. FRER is more sensitive. Everyone here likes FRER. (With my addiction, I'm a Dollar Store kind of girl  ) KUP!!!
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March 27th, 2009, 06:09 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I can see the faint line in the FRER to. I would test again.
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March 27th, 2009, 06:22 PM
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Haha yeah I'm definitely a certified POAS addict as well. They last two cycles I've gone through more HPT's than I can count. Hahaha. I got internet cheapies and got faint BFP's but didn't trust them as they're known to get evap lines and false positives. My first few FRER's were BFN but that one was slightly BFP I guess (hopefully) and Equate has been BFN, but we'll see in a few days. I didn't get a good BFP with my last bean until 17-18 dpo so like I said, I'm chalking it up to being a late O'r and possibly a late implanter as well. At least, for now while I'm still trying to be hopeful
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March 28th, 2009, 09:51 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Welcome to the board!
I'm sorry for your loss!!! I hope you're preggo now and get your sticky bean!! Be sure to update us!!!
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March 28th, 2009, 10:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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That faint line sure looks promising! Welcome to the board.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
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March 28th, 2009, 02:09 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope this is your sticky BFP!
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