[Kary♥RN]

Ok I can only tell this story to my ttc girls... So I think I get a positive opk on Friday. I get into bed and give DH the look. He winces and wispers.. "ahhh I am chafed, I put some neosporin on him". And I guess I looked a little sad... So he says ok I'll go clean him up. We bd. So last night. I get into bed.. after the OPK has deffently got darker.. and its a no go. DH says.. it is too sore, it is beyond chafed now! I can't be mad.. But I am worried that I will miss this egg.. If I O' in the 12-36 hours.. and we bd on Friday... Do you think I still have a chance if we don't bd today (sunday) I have to work tonight. I know thier is always tomorrow... But I think this will be our only baby. and we really want a girl. So we try not to bd on the day I o so that would be today of tomorrow... Right? And I just checked my CM it has now become creamy.. Creamy? Did I O' already? I just re-checked my cm... it is back to ew... I think what happned was yesterday I took an allergy pill that has a decongestant in it.. and It did what it was supposed to.. Dry me up. I am in the process of rechecking my opk.. already it looks lighter than it did last night..

Let me know what you guys think.

[KDD]

Poor DH. I looked at your chart and you should be ok. Of course, FF won't confirm O until you get 3 days of higher temps. but, based your OPKs you should be fine. I hope this is it for you!

[tobynscarlett]

I am so sorry, but I had to laugh a little!! I know your poor DH is in pain. If it makes you feel any better- this last cycle DH and I BD the day my OPK's started getting darker (and several times before that), the next day I am pretty sure I O'ed because all of the signs were there, but DH said he was just WAY too tired and we did not BD on my O day. 2 weeks later I got a BFP!!! So it IS possible that you can still be successful this month. My suggestion either way is to take a break and let DH heal!! I am sure he will appreciate it!!

[Soape]

Bless his little petter. I hope that you either already caught your egg or that you will have enough little spermies there to catch it when it comes.

[Kary♥RN]

I know dh would kill me.. But I had to share with the women who would be able to appricate and understand. I had to laugh when I was posting... It is something that only you ladies would be able to picture... LOL

[~~~Sara~~~]

Your poor DH that is some rough BDing, LOL!

I think technically sperm lives inside the body for several days so I hope this is your cycle!

[Sue46]

we didn't get to BD on my O day either! Last time I got pregnant it wasn't on my O day. I think your still in the running.

[klt]

Don't give up! I thought I was out, too! DH got pretty sick and I thought we may have missed it. I got my BFP that cycle. Keeping everything crossed for you!

[*SamF*]

Poor DH, I know I have had the same problem!!
I agree don't give up hope you have a good chance still!!

[amandakay29]

Originally Posted by Soape

Bless his little petter.

That made me really laugh!!! I hope you caught the eggie. I'm in the same boat. We were just too exhausted this weekend.

[~Angela~]

Originally Posted by KDD

Poor DH. I looked at your chart and you should be ok. Of course, FF won't confirm O until you get 3 days of higher temps. but, based your OPKs you should be fine. I hope this is it for you!