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April 6th, 2009, 12:35 PM
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My hubby and I started TTC on March 2nd after I got finished with AF in FEB. I started AF on 24th of feb and ended on march 1st. I should have gotten AF between the 28th and 30th of march and she still hasnt shown. I am exactly one week late today but ever single test I have taken seems to be a BFN. There were a few tests that I took that looked like there was a very very faint line there but you can hardley see it and they were $ store tests so I am afraid of evaps. I actually did get a very convincing evap line on a blue dye test about 2 weeks ago but I went to the DR and they did a blood test and it was neg. Anyway I have been feeling tired lately and I my boobs have not been sore but they have been achy. For the past couple of days I have been cramping like AF was going to show but when I run to the bathroom she is not there. I really thought I had started today but I didnt. I have read a couple of posts in the TTC board that there were a couple of girls who didnt get their BFP until they were 22 and 24 days late. So my question is could I still be pregnant? Should I go talk to my DR? I am so confused and so miserable and I dont know what to do. I Had a miscarriage back in December and I am afraid that if I am pregnant and I am still getting BFN that it could be a bad sign. I was 2 weeks late for AF when I found out I was pregnant in December and the line was very very faint but that was the only time I had tested cause we were not really trying at the time and being pregnant hadnt even crossed my mind because I had had some trouble with my period a few months before that. I really dont know what to do though. I wish I would either Get a BFP or AF would show one because this is tormenting my life not knowing.
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April 6th, 2009, 12:39 PM
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I would call your doctor and let them know what is going on. And I hate to tell you to test yet again, but it might help, especially if you can get another faint positive, and tell them that.
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April 6th, 2009, 12:49 PM
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You should call your doctor again. I hope you get some answers soon.
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April 6th, 2009, 01:38 PM
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I can only imagine how frustrating this is for you. I'd test again and call the doc so that you have the most recent info available. It can take awhile to get your cycle back to normal after a m/c, but, it's also possible that you're PG. AFter you call, let us know what they say. Good luck!
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April 6th, 2009, 02:55 PM
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I can only imagine how frustrating this is for you. I'd test again and call the doc so that you have the most recent info available. It can take awhile to get your cycle back to normal after a m/c, but, it's also possible that you're PG. AFter you call, let us know what they say. Good luck!
Do you think my cycle could be irregular? They really havent been since the M/C. After my Miscarriage in December I bled for 25 days, I stopped bleeding on christmas (sorry tmi) then in January I started my AF on the 20th and had a normal AF that ended on the 26th and then in February I started my AF on the 24th and had a normal AF that ended on March 1st and on March 2nd is when DH and I started TTC. Before I got pregnant in November I had normal periods in September and October to and then I missed november and took a HPT on December 1st and it was positive but very light. Could I have O'd late or implanted late if I am preg. It has been 41 days since the first day of my last period. I am exactly 1 week late today. Should I wait until I am 2 weeks late (next monday) to test again? I will probably test before then because I have turned into a POAS addict and I should be getting my IC HPT's in the mail tomorrow. But I think I may just go ahead and call my DR tomorrow to. He may want me to come in for another blood test. I just hope I get some answers soon. If I am not Preg I need AF to start so we can move on and continue TTC but if I am preg I need to know for my own sanity. Oh yea one more question. Should we keep BD'ing just in case I am not preg or will it not do any good since I have not gotten AF? Sorry I am so long winded and sorry for all the questions but I am so confused.
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April 6th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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I would go to the Dr and maybe they can give you a little insight as to what is going on. Good luck!
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April 7th, 2009, 01:00 PM
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the not knowing is the worst part of it all!!! i hope you get a bfp!!!! G/L
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April 7th, 2009, 01:19 PM
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I would call the dr.... Since it sounds like up to this point you were having AF about 35 days apart (in Jan-Feb)... I would also say test again.. and let him know everything that is going on... Good Luck. KUP!
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I would call the dr.... Since it sounds like up to this point you were having AF about 35 days apart (in Jan-Feb)... I would also say test again.. and let him know everything that is going on... Good Luck. KUP!
I tested again this morning with a $ store test and it was a BFN. I am going to call the dr tomorrow if AF dont show. I have some cramping in the lower part of my back and stomach so maybe AF is on her way. MY IC HPT's that I bought should be here tomorrow so I will test with them from here on out. I will keep you ladies posted.
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April 7th, 2009, 01:33 PM
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Not knowing is so frustrating! I would definitely get a doctor appt. set up. Have you been stressed out lately or lost or gained weight that would maybe throw off AF for you? Stress has made me almost 2 weeks late before...

I hope it's a BFP though!!!! Please keep us posted and good luck!
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April 7th, 2009, 02:04 PM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. I would definitely call your MD to express your concern and get a blood test. Hang in there!!
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April 9th, 2009, 01:19 AM
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I hope it is a late bfp. Please let us know what happens. Keeping everything crossed for you.
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