[simplicity31]

Hey... just wanted to give you a quick update. AF showed yesterday, my first after my m/c. It's been pretty heavy, but not too painful. I was really upset about it yesterday, but after talking with dh I feel better. We will try again after and he says we will have sex everyday. hahah... that'll be alot of sex, but maybe it'll work. I know that a lot of you like to chart and use opk, but I personally feel like for us we should just have a lot of sex. I'm already obsessed enough as it is and if I introduced temping, checking cm and opk's then I'm pretty sure my obsession would escalate. I think I just want it to happen naturally, like it did with my other babies. You guys have been very supportive when I've posted and I really appreciate you lifting me up when I have felt so down about this process. Everyone of you are good, special people and I just know that you will all be great mom's! Posting or lurking, I think that I am not going to be hanging around too much and focus on my wonderful children that I already have. Good luck to all of you!!

Cary

[*SamF*]

Good luck Cary! Sorry AF showed. I hope you do get your BFP soon. Check back in with us!

[szczepanski]

I'm sorry AF showed...but I do like your plan for cycle 2!

I had just started temping when DH and I got pregnant...not at all planned - we weren't planning on trying until June. Then we m/c, and now we want to try again after AF shows. I'm trying to figure out if I should even bother temping, use OPK's that first cycle or just go for it like you plan to! Right now we are leaning towards the 3rd one..instead of buying OPK's I'll just go buy some fun lingerie.

I'm sorry AF showed Cary! I hope you catch that eggie next cycle! I have been trying for a while and kinda feel the same as you...I don't want to get to OCD (because I already have those tendencies!) so I"m just hoping it'll "just happen"

I wish you luck and kup!!!

[MrsB1227]

sorry she showed, we're in the same boat. i had a natural m/c that started on march 14th and AF showed today. Part of me is a little bit excited though, that my body is back to normal and I can get to bd'ing as soon as AF is gone. i also don't temp and used opk's once, the cycle we got pg. but i didn't get pregnant because of them, they were just a reassurance that i had indeed ovulated. i got pg my second cycle trying and it was due to lots and lots of bd'ing! that's what we plan on doing this time as well. Here's hoping we get our bfp's and sticky beans soon!

[~Laurie~]

I'm sorry AF showed. I didn't temp or use OPK's either. I just made sure to step up the bd'ing around the time I should be Oing. Good luck! I hope you get a speedy bfp!