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April 13th, 2009, 03:49 PM
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ok day 29 14-15 DPO... i tested yesterday with BFN.. some crampy twinges, sore breasts... i took the test in the afternoon.. had to go to CVS becasue dollar tree was closed ( it was easter).. i have one more test.. should i test first thing tommorow or wait?
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April 13th, 2009, 03:58 PM
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I guess it would depend on how regular your cycles were. Are you a 28 day girl which would make you a day late? If it were me, I would probably POAS tomorrow morning and if that was negative I would go and buy more test and test every other day until I either got a BFP or AF showed up. I however have no self-control and tend to pee on anything I can get my hands on those few days before my scheduled AF.

I guess...to answer your question...If you are anxious about it (which we usually are) then go ahead and test in the morning. It can't hurt.

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April 13th, 2009, 04:01 PM
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my cycles are not always normal.. but i got a positive ovulation two days in a row... so my understanding is you should alwas get AF 14 days after ovulation..no matter how long the cycle is.... is that right....
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April 13th, 2009, 04:08 PM
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I would test again tomorrow.. but than again I'm addicted to POAS! You could wait a few days and then retest If af is not here..

I don't you always get af 14 days after O' ing Every woman is different. When do usually get her?
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April 13th, 2009, 04:10 PM
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really it ranges was 35 for a long time .. last month was 28
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April 13th, 2009, 04:11 PM
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I would wait another day or two, or just get a bunch of tests and test every morning until AF shows up, but hopefully you'll get a BFP! Good luck and KUP!
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April 13th, 2009, 04:15 PM
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i really hope.. i think God has a sense of humor.,.. before i miscarried ialways said i did not want a Christmas baby no matter what .. now i would do anything for a Christmas baby!!!! i am keeping my fingers and toes crossed....
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April 13th, 2009, 04:43 PM
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Oh Seizetheday, That was outlook also... My dh is a Christmas baby..and always said I didn't want a Christmas baby, But this past cycle I was heartbroken when AF showed yesterday! Keep the faith! and KUP I am wishing a BFP for you!
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April 13th, 2009, 04:45 PM
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I really hope its a BFP, I say try tomorrow with FMU! What kind of test did you use?
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April 13th, 2009, 04:52 PM
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i used answer tests as i had $4.00 CVS extra bucks and 2 $1.00 off. so $3.00 per test.. i usually use dollar tree.... but it was easter and dollar tree was closed...
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April 13th, 2009, 04:53 PM
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I never wanted a Christmas baby either! I love Christmas so much and it's so busy and hectic on its own...and I always wanted a baby born in the spring. But right now I would give my right arm for a Christmas baby!
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April 13th, 2009, 04:56 PM
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i may even be geeky enough to include holly in a name...
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April 13th, 2009, 05:03 PM
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Holly...that's cute!

Just think of all the cute little Santa hats and reindeer ears we could put on them! This might be a good thing now that I think of it!
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April 13th, 2009, 05:07 PM
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ok.. so what happened that now everone's posts have pictures and colors etc... none of them ever have before...what am i missing?
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April 13th, 2009, 05:28 PM
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Always check to see if you are loged in... I know when I log in at work.. Now one has pictures and colors untill I log in.
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April 13th, 2009, 06:10 PM
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Hope it's a BFP. Test again tomorrow!!
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April 13th, 2009, 07:29 PM
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your lutel phase (ms) is always the same every month. Does not bear any relivance to when you O'd. So if you O'd late, your AF would be late too. So if your cycles are not that regular and you do not chart, than it would be hard to say when AF is due. You would actually have to chart to see how long between when you O and when AF comes. Since you dont know, I would test every other day until you get the BFP you so deserve.
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April 14th, 2009, 07:59 AM
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BFN this morning... DH says.. well lets wait until Sunday to test again.. i will die if i have to wait that long
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April 14th, 2009, 08:37 AM
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I tested today too! BFN of course. Sunday? No way, I'm holding out for Friday now. We'll see how long that lasts...
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April 14th, 2009, 04:51 PM
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I said I didn't want a Christmas baby either...or January. But I think that's when I thought I'd get pregnant right away and it wouldn't really be an issue. Now here it is April and I've got my fingers crossed for a Christmas baby, I'm running down picture ideas in my head (baby in stocking, laying in gift box, etc) and getting excited that I can buy a "my first Christmas outfit" in newborn....fingers crossed for you...and for me!!
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