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April 19th, 2009, 09:35 PM
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My name is Erica dh is J.R. and we have been trying for over a year. I got my bfp on Jan. 1st, but lost it on the 10th. I've had a hard time really accepting that it did and it took me awhile to really even tell dh, but no one else except for JM ladies know about it.
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April 20th, 2009, 05:16 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Of course you can join us. Jump right in. The girls here are great!
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April 20th, 2009, 05:34 AM
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I am very very sorry for you loss. This is a great place to be where you can share your heart and frustration so welcome. It is always so sad to welcome people here and it feels so far away to just be typing a note on the computer, but know that these gals are great and my thoughts and prayers are with you as well.
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April 20th, 2009, 05:47 AM
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So sorry for your loss Erica. The ladies on this board are absolutely wonderful.
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April 20th, 2009, 06:17 AM
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Welcome Erica. I have had a really hard time with my loss as well. I am sure you will find that many ladies here do. The great thing about his board is that it will help you see that while everyone's situation is different we are all in this together. These ladies are great and have helped me greatly!

BTW I am Michelle (27), DH is Steve (27). We got our BFP the day before Valentines day and had our loss March 9.
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April 20th, 2009, 06:22 AM
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Sorry for your loss.
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April 20th, 2009, 06:31 AM
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Of course you can join! I am so sorry for your loss. I'm a relative newbie and I can't begin to tell you how wonderful this board is.
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April 20th, 2009, 06:34 AM
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Welcome to the board!!!
I'm sorry for your loss, I hope you find this board as helpful and supportive as I have.
Look forward to getting to know you!
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April 20th, 2009, 06:48 AM
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April 20th, 2009, 07:09 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. The ladies here are so great and understanding.

I am Erika as well! I'm 25, dbf is Zack, 32, and we had a loss in Oct 2007 and have been ttc since Jan 2008.

Good luck to you and I look forward to getting to know you.
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April 20th, 2009, 07:43 AM
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Hi, welcome to the board!!! I am so happy that you found a place to get the support you need. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you!!! This is a wonderful group of ladies!!!
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April 20th, 2009, 11:34 AM
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Welcome, jump right in.

I'm sorry you had to join us though
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April 20th, 2009, 12:12 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss...
We are going through one right now and if I had no one to talk to I'd be a useless mess.

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April 20th, 2009, 12:18 PM
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I remember you from TTC. It's a good group here, even though I lurk more than I post
Sorry you're having such a hard time. I've had 2 m/c's, the most recent in Feb. Sorry you had to join, and good luck!
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April 20th, 2009, 12:28 PM
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Hi Ericka, just wanted to welcome you here. So sorry for your loss. It just is not fair that we have to go through this. My name is Lori, DH is Jerry and we just lost our second one on the 2nd. I was 9.5wks. The first one was in Jan, at 4wks.
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April 20th, 2009, 02:46 PM
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Hi Ericka, i'm so sorry for your loss. I"ve had three m/c's. It is so emotionally draining!!! I pray you and all the rest of us get a sticky bfp soon!!! HUGS
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April 20th, 2009, 03:49 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss!!
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April 20th, 2009, 04:01 PM
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Erica I am so sorry for your loss.
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April 20th, 2009, 04:10 PM
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Welcome. I'm sorry for your loss
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April 20th, 2009, 06:05 PM
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welcome and hope that you get your sticky bean soon!
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