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April 20th, 2009, 05:48 AM
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Why do I torture myself this way?! ahhh! Every twinge in my body and every "symptom" turns into planning for my baby's future and what things will be like with two kiddos and how I will tell my family and friends. So maddening. I am cycle day 27 but have never had regular cycles so I really dont know when I should test so of course I did yesterday and got a bfn. I know its not over but it is so discouraging to see that second blank window no matter what. Im just coming to grips with my slight obsession I think.
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April 20th, 2009, 06:07 AM
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It's totally normal. I hope you get your bfp. How old is Jack? You sound like me...My dh and I were talking about which room would be the new baby's last night and i'm only 3 dpo.
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April 20th, 2009, 06:16 AM
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It's not obsession, it's over planning- much easier to swallow.
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April 20th, 2009, 06:28 AM
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I'm sorry about your BFN. I do the same thing w/ symptoms also. Every little thing could mean something. Yesterday I actually had cravings for pickles in the morning and salami later in the day. First EPS that I've ever noticed. Who knows!!

I hope you get your BFP soon!!
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April 20th, 2009, 07:29 AM
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I think you're in the right place! lol I know exactly what you mean, those bfn's are so hard to see. But you're right, it's not over yet! Good luck!
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April 20th, 2009, 07:50 AM
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Yeah, you obsess over every twinge until you get that BFP, then when you finally get it your obsession changes slightly and you start to obsess over every twinge til the baby finally gets here!!! It's a never ending cycle that will drive you crazy!! Hope you get good news soon!!!
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