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April 27th, 2009, 03:44 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Littleton, CO
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I lost my precious baby at 11 wks. 6 days. on March 3, 2009.
I am going crazy waiting to start trying again. We were going to wait until June to start trying but I don't think I can wait that long. I am going off of my BC in a couple of weeks and we are going to leave it up to nature when we get pregnant. I really want another baby and I don't want to wait too long because I have a two year old son and we were always hoping to have our children at least 2 and a half years apart. There is no way for that to happen now but I don't think I want them to be more then 3 and a half years apart.
I am also nervous. What if it happens again? What happens then?
My Dr. told me to wait at least two cycles before trying again. I am going on three so I figure that's enough time.
I don't think I have ever wanted a baby so much before. I am so excited, yet scared.
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April 27th, 2009, 04:09 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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I'm very sorry for your loss. I know that you'll find a lot of support and understanding on this board.
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April 27th, 2009, 05:23 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Ohio
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I am so sorry to welcome you here.
I had a m/c at 11 weeks on March 18th. Our daughter is 2 1/2 and I think I was more sad for her than for me. My sister and I are 2 years apart and I had hoped for that for my daughter. Now we will be lucky to have them 3 1/2 years apart.
Good luck TTC. I hope to join the TTC ranks soon!
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April 27th, 2009, 05:46 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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I am sorry for your loss. Was there a reason the doctor said wait 2 cycles? I am feeling the same way right now. What if I get pregnant again and we lose that one? What then? Can I really handle another loss?
You found a great place for support.
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April 27th, 2009, 07:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Welcome to the board.
I'm very sorry for your loss!!! 
I hope you stick around!
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April 27th, 2009, 08:03 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: illinois
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Welcome and Iam sorry for your recent loss. The anxiety is horrible isn't it? I wish you lots of luck with TTC again and hope your stay is short and sweet here. Im Lori and just my lo at 9.5wks almost 4wks ago. Hopefully we will all have healthy 2010 baby's!
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April 27th, 2009, 08:24 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
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Quote:
Originally Posted by missy123
I am sorry for your loss. Was there a reason the doctor said wait 2 cycles? I am feeling the same way right now. What if I get pregnant again and we lose that one? What then? Can I really handle another loss?
You found a great place for support.
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I had a D&C and so she just wanted me to let my body heal and also just for emotional reasons. I'm glad I didn't just jump right back in. I needed time to mourn and heal emotionally. I am ready now to start thinking about having another baby.
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April 27th, 2009, 10:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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I understand about the healing side of it all. My midwives said I am physically ok, and I am still really sad but they feel it is ok for me to TTC again right away. Plus given my age I really don't have a lot of time left.
Whatever you decide we are here for you.
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April 28th, 2009, 06:53 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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i am very sorry for your loss - HUGS
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April 28th, 2009, 07:59 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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April 28th, 2009, 11:43 AM
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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HI Leah. I am very sorry about your loss!!!
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April 28th, 2009, 12:29 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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Welcome to the board, Sorry for your loss. I know it is scary. We are all here for you , and feel the same.
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April 28th, 2009, 01:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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I'm sorry for your loss.
Glad you joined! This is a great board. Hope you get that BFP soon, and go on to a H&H 9 months!
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