question

twoboys · #1 May 3rd, 2009, 09:19 PM

So, as you have seen my previous posts, I "ovulated" for 7 days according to the answer opk strips I was using... I am wondering what day do I consider the real O date?? I tested today, dollar store brand.. and was neg... however on friday when i tested I got a real light line. very light.. so light I didnt even tell my family.. but yesterday and today it was neg... I guess if I O'd earliest being 23rd I am 10pdo?? but I am not sure thats when I O'd since the test stayed strong for so long, maybe I o'd later??? I just dont know, and I am soooooooo frustrated by seeing that line and getting happy.. then nothing.. I know about chemical pregnancies.. I dont think it was that, maybe a faulty line?? I just have no idea when I actually O'd due to the frequent 7 day poss on opk!!!! I dont know who to talk to about it, fiance just doesnt understand how it feels.. causes us to argue and me to get upset, which doesnt help. I really feel like maybe I shouldnt be ttc due to the problems m/c caused us... yet I yearn so badly to have another child.. we have the whole nursery set up and everything... I just want to cry myself to sleep.. and I know that doesnt help. I dont think my family belive my fiance is right for me and today we put up a swing set for my 5 yr old.. and for the first time I actually saw what they were saying.. it was like "work" for him, when it should have been just fun.. like yey.. finally a lovely swing set, but it was ruined by the conflict it caused.. thank god for my neighbor who is really into that kind of stuff and came over to save the day.. now we have our swing set up... and its awesome, Jack loves it, and my fiances kids will love it, he just hated putting in that labor to put it together.. my god, we only moved it from the neighbors house to ours, its awesome, and all I could think of is how happy my son would be to have it... anyhow, back to my main question... when should I even try to predict estimated O date??? first poss was on 23rd?? oh god.. please dont let af come on mothers day

im sorry, i just needed to vent..... its been a long day of smiles and tears... I am upside down with my emotions...

#2 May 4th, 2009, 06:44 AM

Aww Nicky I'm sorry. I don't know what day would be your O day. I would guess the day after you got the first pos one b/c of it detecting the LH surge and then you O the next day? I am not good at this stuff, I'm sure the other girls are.

I hope you can work things out with your fiance. Maybe he just didn't feel like working outside and it wasn't really the swingset that was bothering him, he was just tired and crabby? I hope you feel better.

~Lynda~ · #3 May 4th, 2009, 06:50 AM

i would agree with Erika. USUALLY O comes the day after you get a pos opk. but just know that it could be the next day too. G/L girl!!

*SamF* · #4 May 4th, 2009, 06:57 AM

I wouldn't worry about the negztive tests yet. The one postive looked pretty promising.
SOrry you had such a rough time with your fiance, hope it' s just what Erika said, he wasn't in the mood to work outside, or just in a crabby mood.

Kary♥RN · #5 May 4th, 2009, 06:59 AM

As long as AF hasn't come knocking.... you are still in. And because of the screwed OKP's your not quite sure.. so you maybe too early... GOOD LUCK KUP!!