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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: missouri
Posts: 4,216
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well I am officially confused ONCE Again. Yesterday I had my tech tell me my pregnancy was not vital with no HB, I had to go in to talk with doc, and he was very sweet, I couldnt stop crying, DH was crying to, and said he wanted one more scan just toease his mind.....
Then BAM there was a small flutter, VERY small, but VERY there!!  I am so freakin scared ! He said it could have JUST started, and I was measureing actually 5wks5days,WAY off, but it actually went right in hand with my U/S on the 20th... He said there is enough question here for me to stay on Progestrone, get another draw tomorrow, and get the third U/S on Monday. He said it could be also an echo from my heart??? I KNOW I should not get my hopes up, and I tried to lay there and say this isnt true dont hurt yourself again, but how can I NOT try and hope!!!! I know you girls are probably tired of this drama and all, Because I MOST certainly am! I am praying that this is Gods way of showing WHO is in control!!! I am relieved, and stressed,and scared,all at the same time..... I my numbers on monday went from 20,000 somthing to 27,000somthing. I hate to have false hope or to be holding on to straw ends, but it seems I am... Please dont stop praying fo my Bean!! I am desperate for your prayers!!!!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,829
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Oh, honey, I can't even imagine what you must be going through! Don't EVER think that we're tired of you...we're here to listen!
I totally understand what you mean about hope...there was a small fire in my heart that wouldn't go out right up until it was confirmed that Autumn had stopped growing at 9 weeks.
You, your DH and your bean will be in my T&P. I hope you get your miracle, and no matter what, we're here for you! 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 15,519
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Miracles DO happen I will will be praying this is yours 
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: missouri
Posts: 4,216
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oh thank you all so much!!!! Monday seems so far away, omg, and the blood draws, I hope they are good...
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TTCAL Co-Host
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 910
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I will be praying for you too!!! It would be such a wonderful miracle to find out that the dates were off. I am so hoping that is the case. Monday seems so far away and I know you feel like you are losing your mind right now, but we are all here for you. Just keep venting when you need to!!! 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,285
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I have everything crossed for you and praying like crazy!!!!!!
I hope your number keeps going up!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 7,673
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I hope this is it for you and you were just wrong on your dates. Things like this happen and if you are only 5 weeks, the heartbeat still might not be showing or just starting like you just saw.... I am so excited for you...
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 8,497
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I really hope that what you saw whas the baby's hb and it just started! I know that you are going to be a nervous wreck until the next u/s, but try to relax a little. I know easier said than done. All I can say is thank God your DH wanted another scan to be reassured, or you may have not seen the beginnings of this flutter. Keeping you in my thoughts!!!
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Vampire Loving Mama :)
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Centralia IL
Posts: 4,251
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I will pray for your little bean. I hope it keeps growing..
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 1,990
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Praying hard for you girlie!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 2,362
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Keeping you and your bean in my thoughts and prayers. Hope we will all hear some great news on Monday!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,716
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i have everything crossed for you!
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Hi-Tech Hippie
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Richland, WA
Posts: 6,038
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I hope you get to stay with us in the Dec DDC! That is so awesome that your Dr listened to your DH! It would truly be a Christmas miracle!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,853
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I replied to you in the PL board before you got this latest news. I know the waiting is the worst part. Just take care of yourself and I hope Monday gets here fast for you. You have a lot of JM mommies thinking and praying about you!
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Holly Springs, NC
Posts: 12,913
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fingers and toes crossed, and keeping you in t&p!! I cant imagine going through what your going through.. its an emotional rollercoaster, thats for sure
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: New York
Posts: 2,872
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Praying that everything works out Monday. Have you ever been on misdiagnosedmiscarriage.com? I found it soon after my miscarriage. You will find lots of stories to make you hopeful!
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Mommy to 3
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Upstate New York
Posts: 5,516
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I really hope things look good next week!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Oh hun please do not give up hope. Your in my thoughts and prayers
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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waiting is hard hun, but you have hope, where yesterday you didn't. keep the faith!!! you owe your little bean that!!!! don't be afraid to hope for fear of heartbreak, hope is what you need right now!!!! i will pray for you and your little bean!!!! miracles happen EVERY Day girl!!!! pray for one!!!
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