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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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Well those of you who read the main thread know that we didn't get a heartbeat yesterday by doppler at 10 weeks. I realize it's early, but that's what happened last time and the U/S showed us that the baby had recently passed.
After a horrible morning between two hospitals, the U/S confirmed that I indeed had a second loss. This time, it was a blighted ovum which at least I won't have nightmares about, unlike the image of the last baby that was fully formed and still ingrained in my head. They were able to do a D&C on me an hour ago and send the tissue out for testing. At least this time I should be getting answers and they agreed to do some blood work for me as well.
Needless to say, I'm devastated and beyond depressed. I have no children. My body apparently can conceive but not reproduce. Not only that, it never recognizes a death. I hate my uterus.
I know you are all sorry, and I know you are all here to support me as we keep trying... we will keep trying eventually... I just wanted to update everyone. Thanks for your thoughts.
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Hi-Tech Hippie
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High IQ~ No common sense
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Central Illinois
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Hugs honey. You are in my thoughts. 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Akron, Ohio
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Awwwww. Im so sorry sweetie!  Thanks for the update and big hugs for you!
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Texas
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oh Kristin i don't even know what to say, i'm just devastated for you and i'm crying as I type this...I just can't believe this is happening to you again. Life can be so incredibly unfair sometimes! If you ever need to talk, i'm only a PM away.
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Long Island, NY
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Oh Kristin, my heart is breaking for you right now. I am so sorry you had to go through this again Please know, if you need to talk I am here for you. Big hugs.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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Kristin... I know , no words can make this easier on you. Just know I am thinking about you.
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Mommy to 3
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Upstate New York
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Oh my god. You'll be on my mind this weekend.
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I am so so sorry.
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TTCAL Co-Host
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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Sweetie, I am so sorry that you are going through this again. I know you must be devastated. I will be praying for you and praying for healing for your mind and body. Please stick around if you are comfortable, as you know these ladies are wonderful and there is nothing like the support you get from someone who has been there.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Texas
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Kristin big you are in my T&P's!!!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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How devastating. I know that I don't have the right words to say. Just know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Alberta, Canada
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No words can help you right now. You know we are all here for you - thinking about you! Take care of yourself!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
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Kristin, you and your DH are in my T&P. *HUGS*
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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Kristen I am so sorry, I'm crying for you too.
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Vampire Loving Mama :)
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Centralia IL
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oh hun I am sooo sorry for your loss..I am here if you need to talk to someone
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: B.C.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: New York
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I'm so sorry for your loss!!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Chesapeake, VA
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Oh no, my goodness Kristin. I am SO SORRY. I wish I had better words, just know I'm thinking about you.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: South Louisiana
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I am so so sorry.
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