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  #1  
May 11th, 2009, 04:24 PM
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Hi Ladies! It looks like I am joining you. I just lost my first at 11 weeks. Wow, this is rough! I was a member of the December DDC and it everyone was so wonderful and supportive that I would like to join this group now.

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May 11th, 2009, 04:28 PM
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I am so sorry that you had to join us but you will find lots of support and love here! We lost our baby at 7 week on 3/3/08. I still had days where I cant get it together. It is ok to be a mess and we are here for you! We all know the pain and the fears that you are going through....
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May 11th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. You have a difficult road ahead of you, but this is a great place to be. You may also want to check out the pregnancy loss boards- those ladies are wonderful too. Sadly, Welcome to the board.
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May 11th, 2009, 04:37 PM
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Hi and I am sorry you are here, It is very rough. Join the loss board, we understand what you are going though. (((Hugs)))
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May 11th, 2009, 05:59 PM
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So sorry to hear about your loss. Wishing you all the best ttc again whenever you are ready. Please know that we are here for you!!!
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May 11th, 2009, 06:04 PM
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I'm so sorry, honey.

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May 11th, 2009, 06:06 PM
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May 11th, 2009, 06:06 PM
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May 11th, 2009, 07:30 PM
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Hi there.. there is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better.. Its a very difficult thing to go through and you dont really understand unless you have been through it yourself!! Everyone here is wonderful!!! very helpful and understanding! good luck ttc again. We lost at 15 weeks in January, Its horrible, but you will find a way to move on with life.. You will never forget, but it gets easier to live with. (((((( hugs ))))))
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May 12th, 2009, 03:28 AM
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Hey Hun. I'm so very very sorry to see you here. I was a Dec DDC member too. This board is a great help for anything you need... please feel free to jump in and join us and vent whenever you need too. We're here for you through this tough time. Lots of hugs.
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May 12th, 2009, 03:49 AM
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I'm so sorry hun! Huge hugs. We are here if you need to talk, rant, cry or advice we are here.
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May 12th, 2009, 04:17 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss and I know you will find all the wonderful support you need around here take care
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May 12th, 2009, 05:38 AM
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So sorry for your loss. Hope you get your bfp and sticky bean soon!
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May 12th, 2009, 05:42 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. This group of ladies are wonderful. Welcome.
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May 12th, 2009, 06:21 AM
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Thanks ladies! I wanted to say you have no idea how much this supports helps, but the silver lining is you have all been there, done that, which is helpful to know I am not alone. While I know m/c is pretty common, it is tough when two of your friends who didn't even want to be pg got pregnant and one gave birth two weeks ago and the other is 28 weeks. I am still in the sit on the couch crying stage. I don't even want to leave the house. But, thankfully I'm an optimist and I know if I can just get through today, tomorrow will be better, and same with the day after that.

Thanks for being so supportive! It is so encouraging to see all of you ladies.
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May 12th, 2009, 06:24 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Glad you found this board, it is full of wonderful ladies!
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May 12th, 2009, 08:55 AM
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hi hun, i'm so sorry for your loss!!!! i lost a baby at 8 weeks and then one at 11 weeks too. it's horrible and i don't wish it on anyone!!! lots of hugs to you!!!!
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May 12th, 2009, 03:11 PM
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Glad you found us... never good to welcome a new person here but these ladies have been wonderful to me so you couldn't ask for a better group to help you heal.

You are right. We have all unfortuneately been there and know what you are going through. Take the time to heal - you need it!
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May 12th, 2009, 04:08 PM
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Awww Elena I love new ladies joining but hate the reason we are here. Welcome to the board, we are all here for you. I am so sorry to hear of your loss
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