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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Nebraska
Posts: 4,225
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Ok ladies, the recap on me is that I was originally WTTC because of work commitments. I recently lost my position (not my job) and DH and I have had a lot of talks about what this means for us.
Well....we have decided to take the plunge and TTC next cycle!!!!! This is more than 6 months ahead of our original plan. I'm so nervous as I type these words and excited at the same time. We have decided that basically, maybe it wasn't a good decision for us to put our "family" plans on hold anyway for my career oriented job. I mean, there will always be demanding jobs. We have spent the last 3 years rearranging our plans to follow my career....and the plans to have a baby just keep getting bumped. I think our priorities have been backwards. Work will only get more demanding...and there really is no "perfect time" to squeeze in a pregnancy and a newborn. But, if we put family first, I think it will be more rewarding.
So, I had a ton of tests done last week to try to find answers from my losses. We should get the results back next week. If the tests all come back looking good, then we are BD'ing in June! (If anything comes up, we will just see a reproductive specialist first and then BD!!!). As soon as I get the results, I will let you all know and change my siggy from WTTC to TTC!!!
Last edited by starrsgirl; May 14th, 2009 at 10:15 AM.
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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That's awesome Liz. Good luck ttc and hopefully your tests will come back fine so that you can start sooner than later. Sending lots of baby dust your way!
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Mommy to 3
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Upstate New York
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,285
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Liz- that is great news! I hope your wait is very short!!!
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High IQ~ No common sense
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Central Illinois
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Woo Hoo Liz! Congrats! Hope you get your BFP VERY soon!!
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That's wonderful news Liz! I hope you get some answers from the testing and are able to BD in June!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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cool, it's hard to wait!!! best of luck!!!
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Long Island, NY
Posts: 6,082
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Thats great news! Good luck with the testing, I hope all comes back great!!! Have fun BDing
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 1,708
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I hope all of your tests come out good. Congrats on TTC.
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Veteran
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Join Date: May 2009
Posts: 139
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congrats on ttc...sometimes it can be hard to decide when to try...you want everything to be perfect...but in reality there is no perfect time. you just have to make the time and rearange your life around that little baby......good luck with eveyrthing!!!!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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Liz - I thought you were going to announce your BFP when I saw the title!
Good luck in June!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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Liz - I thought you were going to announce your BFP when I saw the title!
Good luck in June!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,829
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WOW! Congratulations!! I hope all the tests come back A-OK and you can start right away!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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I hope you get the answers... GOOD LUCK this cycle!!!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,853
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Congrats- When we decided to get pg for the first time with our daughter, we felt the same way. We kept planning around everything and everyone else. One day we said forget it- it was time to put our family first. We are so glad we did. We hope to be able to give our little girl a sibling soon.
Good luck!
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TTCAL Co-Host
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 910
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I think you are making a wonderful decision!!!! I once read on a post "You will never be sorry you had a child, but you may be sorry you didn't" Hooray for making your own time table and not folowing someone else's!!! Good Luck!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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Wonderful news, Liz!!!
Good luck to you and Eric!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Posts: 1,571
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That's great news! It's true... there's never going to be the "Right" time to have a baby. As soon as he or she arrives, the rest will fall into place! Good luck! I hope you get good results from your tests (kup) and we see your bfp soon!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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That is great news. Good luck TTC hopefully the journey is a short one.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Winston-Salem, NC (Home of the Krispy Kreme!)
Posts: 3,885
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I thought you were going to announce a BFP too! GL with your testing!
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