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May 15th, 2009, 05:10 AM
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Hi Ladies,

I was trying to explain to my mum why Im so down without my BFP this month... Im not too sure if it sounds crazy or what is going!!

So, how I see it is, I have these two groups of friends at the moment and neither group I feel I 'fit' in at the minute.
My friends who have babies and are pregnant and my friends who are all still partying etc.
Im not in either and with what is happening it makes me feel even more lost and alone..

Does that even make sense??

Argh, Im fustrated that Im sad, then ticked off that Im not moving on like I think others (aka stronger in my mind) would of managed then so sad that Im doubting my own way of dealing with it... THEN i feel just alone...

ARGH!!!!
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May 15th, 2009, 06:15 AM
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Aw hun huge hugs! I know exactly what you are going through. DH and I feel as if we are just alone anymore. All I can say hun is the friends that will always be there for you are you true friends and you know you always have us.
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May 15th, 2009, 07:19 AM
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You forgot your 3rd group of friends!!! US!!! I think we can all relate to your situation on some level. Hopefully you will get that BFP soon!!!
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May 15th, 2009, 07:40 AM
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You totally fit in over here..so don't you forget it! BIG HUGS!!!!!
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May 15th, 2009, 08:04 AM
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I am in EXACTLY the same situation. I just try to hang out with both groups b/c eventually I'll be with the pg/kids group but I still want to stay friends with everyone. But I'm turning down partying b/c I don't want to drink. It's rough. I spend alot of time alone at home. Like the girls said, we have each other, thank goodness!
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