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May 15th, 2009, 06:48 AM
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This week is just not ending on a good note.
My sister just e-mailed me that she had an u/s yesterday (she's 6 weeks 5 days) and they couldn't find a heart beat. They told her to come back next week for another u/s to double check. She's been trying for 10 month now and they had just put her on thyroid meds and she got pregnant.
I am soooooo bummed right now! That is the last thing I want to hear. Why can't something good happen already?
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May 15th, 2009, 06:54 AM
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I'm so sorry I hope they find the HB next week. Maybe she just o'd late?
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May 15th, 2009, 06:55 AM
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It is a little early still. I hope they find it next week!!!
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May 15th, 2009, 06:55 AM
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Aww hunnie that is terrible! I pray that they made a mistake and when she goes back in they see the heartbeat. Your both in my prayers.
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Trish, Try and keep her and you positive. Maybe they just couldn't find it this week. You both are in my throughts this weekend. Hope there is a good strong HB next week!
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May 15th, 2009, 07:01 AM
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I am so sorry to hear that Please tell your sister that she is in my thoughts and prayers. Of course, also extend an invitation for her to join us if the next u/s doesn't go well. I hate this is happening to your family, I know she will be a nervous wreck for the next week.
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May 15th, 2009, 07:48 AM
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I'm so sorry I hope they find the HB next week. Maybe she just o'd late?
I wish that was the case, but not very likely, as she was going in for u/s to see when she'd O. So she pretty much knows the date. She's not even sure if the fetal pole was there.
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May 15th, 2009, 08:01 AM
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Awww I am so sorry. We are due up for some dang good news in here. to you and your sister.
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May 15th, 2009, 10:13 AM
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Oh I am so sorry! That is terrible! Maybe it was too early though. I hope next week's ultrasound is better!
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May 15th, 2009, 11:23 AM
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Oh sweetie, I am so sorry to hear that. I hope that it was too early and she gets to see a beautiful heartbeat next week. She's in my thoughts and prayers.
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May 15th, 2009, 12:11 PM
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that happened to me. it's totally devastating. i'm so very very sorry!!!!
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May 15th, 2009, 03:51 PM
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It's not over, Trish!!! I know it's hard to stay positive, but you have to right now!

I'm very sorry your sister is going through this!!! I'm saying a prayer for her right now!!!

and heading your way and her way!!!
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May 15th, 2009, 04:27 PM
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I am so sorry for what your sister/you/your family are going through. Praying for fantastic news next week!
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I will keep praying for your sister.. I really really hope it was just too early to hear a heartbeat and that they hear it next week... I am so sorry, its so hard to have to go through.. (((((hugs)))))
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May 16th, 2009, 04:44 AM
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I'm sorry Trish. My heart goes out to your sister and I really hope they find a heartbeat at the next visit. Thinking lots of positive thoughts for her...
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Trish, I'm so sorry to hear about your sister! Sending positive thoughts and her way!
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I'm so sorry, Trish. You and your sister are in my T&P. *HUGS*
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HUGS to you and your sister, I am so sorry she has to go through this. My T&P are with you guys. HUGS
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