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I had a m/c in July 08 and then after that is when the spotting started. I was on the pill till May, our wedding day (3rd) and went off it to ttc a honeymoon baby - which we got but lost. (so first cycle ttc) So, after the d&c is when I noticed the spotting. around 7 days before AF was due. Then i fell preg again in Dec.... and lost that little on in Jan. the spotting since that m/c has been 7 - 10 days prior to AF.
Also, throughout both m/c's I have had spotting all the way through the pregnancies so that hasn't been good. And, I should also mention that one of the reasons i wanted to get off the pill is because i started to get spotting while on the pill.. if i was even minutes late taking it i would get spotting and it had gotten to the point where even if i wasn't late taking it i would get spotting. Originally DH and I had thought we would wait 3 months after our wedding to start ttc but in the end decided i would go off the pill as soon as we were married because of the problems I was having with the pill.
sorry, that was really long. But there seems to be a lot with me and spotting over the last 12 months +