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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
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As you all know me and Steve are desperatly wanting a baby and as my would be due date approaches it's making it worse.
However, we are getting married on July 24th on Myrtle Beach and then taking a cruise to the Bahama's.
We dont want to waste anymore time on TTC but he mentioned maybe we should wait, do I want to be sick and tired and not aloud to have a coctail (which doesnt really bother me that bad) for our wedding and honeymoon?
What would you guys do???I see his point... but I dont want to wait (nether does he), I want a baby now...but grrrrr!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
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 If it was me I would still TTC. I want a child so badly. But I guess it depends on how you feel and if you could wait longer before trying.
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Platinum Supermommy
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That is a hard one, do you have a history of bad m/s? that would be my only concern on a cruise.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
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Quote:
Originally Posted by *SamF*
That is a hard one, do you have a history of bad m/s? that would be my only concern on a cruise.
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With Rylee, I had no sickness at all (except with red sauce) and with my past pregnany I was sick and nauseated ALL the time for the 1st 12 weeks) 
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If I was in your shoes... I think I would not try/not protect untill the wedding.. Keep the presure off, while still "trying"... If it happens it happens. If not than you go "crazy" on the honeymoon
This way... it was in Gods hands....And you won't be too disapointed if it dosen't happen. Good Luck, with whatever you decide.
You might go on the cruise.. not pregnant.. and have motion sickness.. Or get montazuma revenge.... You can never plan... 100%
Last edited by Kary♥RN; May 19th, 2009 at 10:38 AM.
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I agree with Kare, I wouldn't try too hard but I wouldn't prevent it...whatever happens happens. July isn't that far away. good luck!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
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I agree with Kary!!! 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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I understand how hard it is to stop TTC after you've started. I like Kary's idea of NTNP, if you're ok with the idea of POSSIBLY being sick and tired while on your honeymoon quiz.
Good luck, honey!
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Join Date: Feb 2009
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KaryRN
If I was in your shoes... I think I would not try/not protect untill the wedding.. Keep the presure off, while still "trying"... If it happens it happens. If not than you go "crazy" on the honeymoon
This way... it was in Gods hands....And you won't be too disapointed if it dosen't happen. Good Luck, with whatever you decide.
You might go on the cruise.. not pregnant.. and have motion sickness.. Or get montazuma revenge.... You can never plan... 100% |
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Yep, I agree with NTNP!!!! That way you don't lose the hope you will be pg by then, but you do take away the pressure and frustration!! Besides, how awesome would it be to get pg on your honeymoon!!! 
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
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I say let nature take it's course if it happens before awesome if not after the wedding it could be a honeymoon baby
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Australia
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It's a tough one... but with your wedding still being two months away... if it was me I don't think I could wait. For me each cycle (my 3rd since miscarriage, but only 2nd ttc) is dragging out so badly as it is - I'm not sure I could put it on hold for something, other than medical advice! It sounds like you both really really want that baby - will it make you happier leading up to your wedding knowing that you are trying? I guess whatever you decide will be right for you!!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2008
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That's a hard decision! maybe just continue on w/your normal routines - don't think about, dont try to plan it, just go about a normal day and if yall are in the mood - go for it - know what I mean? Then you are living life normal, not stressful for either of you and no matter if it is meant to happen before the wedding, it will. =) good luck girl!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Missouri
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I agree with the NTNP!!! With my miscarriage I was actually pregnant at my wedding but didn't know it (probably in the 2ww)...we weren't trying but not protecting either. I found out on our honeymoon in Hawaii that I was pregnant. Good luck on whatever you decide.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
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Thanks Ladies. We decided we are gunna do exactlly what most of you mentioned. " Keep trying" and if it happens ( ) Great, and if it doesnt then at least we didnt delay our TTC period.
Thank you!!
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Our Trisomy 18 baby boy 2/10/2009 @20.1 weeks
McKenna Claire 3-12-2010
Angel in Heaven 3/16/2011- 12.3 weeks
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