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May 20th, 2009, 04:27 PM
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I am about 8 1/2 weeks pregnant but had spotting a few days ago. Then it turned into bleeding. Went to get an ultrasound today and the doctor says there is still a heart beat (between 70-110) but the baby looks abnormal and is only measuring around 6-7 weeks. He says the yolk sac is too big and the fetus is too small. I am certain of my conception date because I had an IUI.

She checked my cervix and it's still closed. The bleeding is still going on.

Anyone else experience the same thing? Is there ANY hope for me?
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May 20th, 2009, 04:51 PM
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I haven't experienced this at all but I just wanted to send you a big old hug

Im so sorry you are going through all of this. I hope that they are wrong and it all ends up ok.

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May 20th, 2009, 06:32 PM
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I did somewhat. I was 8 weeks at the u/s measuring 6.5 with a hb of 42 then 98 at the second. I did research to see if there was there was any hope and I did find some stories that ended ok. I really hope it turns out ok
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May 20th, 2009, 07:21 PM
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I just want to say I am sorry you are going through all this.
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May 20th, 2009, 07:53 PM
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I am so sorry that you are going through this, I know its so very hard.. and I pray with all my heart that it turns out okay for you.. I will say a prayer for you tonight.. KUP, and GL with everything, (((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
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May 20th, 2009, 08:59 PM
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I am so sorry you are dealing with this, you must be very upset. The best advice I can give you is that it's not over until it's over. This seems to be the mantra on this board. Never give up hope and keep us posted on your progress. You are welcome on this board anytime!!!
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May 20th, 2009, 10:37 PM
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I am really sorry I don't have any answers I just wanted to say goodluck and I hope everything is okay I also hope some of the lovely ladies may have some answers for you.
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May 21st, 2009, 12:28 AM
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Just sending you some hugs hun, keep praying things will be ok. Ive heard of a lot of women having bleeding while pregnant and continueing to have very healthy beautiful babies. I have no idea about the size of the little one, I am just hoping he/she is a late bloomer. Keep us updated please? I'll be thinking of you.
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May 21st, 2009, 03:38 AM
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Sending you some huge hugs! Do not give up hope. Doctors can be wrong and I'm praying for you and bub. G/L and KUP.
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May 21st, 2009, 03:53 AM
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I'm sorry you are going through this. I miscarried at the same gestational age as you (8.5wks) - no symptoms that anything was wrong but at my first scan the baby had no heartbeat, and he estimated the heart had stopped beating just a couple of days before. At the time I was so upset that I NEVER got to see the heartbeat - but I can see how for you this must be so much harder. To know the heart is still beating but that the doctor is not optomistic - I truly hope it works out for you.

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May 21st, 2009, 05:20 AM
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I'm sorry I don't have advice for you, but I always think there's some hope. I'm thinking of you.. hugs hun.
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May 21st, 2009, 05:47 AM
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hugs to you. the waiting to know is so hard!! i hope the dr. is wrong and everything is just find with your little bean. don't lose faith!!!
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May 21st, 2009, 06:18 AM
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I don't have any experience with exactly what you are going through. I just wanted to say don't give up hope. It's not over until it's over. You are still pregnant and your little one still has a heartbeat! Please KUP!
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May 21st, 2009, 06:20 AM
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I really hope that everything works out for you and the lil bean. Check out misdiagnosedmiscarriage.com, you might find similar stories to yours there.
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May 21st, 2009, 07:48 AM
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I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you! Please keep us updated.
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May 21st, 2009, 08:34 AM
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I wish I had an answer for you. Please know that I am thinking of you and baby and praying that everything will be okay. Don't give up hope!!
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May 21st, 2009, 09:40 AM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this!!! I did not experience what you are going through, so I can't even imagine it.

I hope you get good news very soon and your baby is okay!!

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May 21st, 2009, 12:01 PM
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I just wanted to sends HUGS....dont loose hope, KUP
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