[Alpha_allie1010]

So I havent really been around for like two weeks.....sorry everyone....

So this week I havve had so many ups and downs. Our of our friends had her little baby girl sunday and I really thought that it would bother but suprisingly it didnt. I felt so proud of myself because I truely was just excited for her. Then the week happened...

I literally had 4 friends announce that they were preg monday and tuesday! I was annoyed but putting on a smiling face for them and then ANOTHER ONE TODAY!!!

So that was it...I was so angry! So I called one of my friends to vent and the first word out of her mouth were " I didnt know that was still bothering you?" What kind of question it that...what makes you think that just because a some time went by that I dont think about my baby all the time? i guess until you go through it you just dont really understand

I am just glad that I can come here and vent to people to can understand......

[Kary♥RN]

I am so sorry you have had that kind of week. I just hope it can get easier to hear and see woman that are preggers.. I'm not sure when that time is.. I know I am still waiting. HUGS to you... I know it is hard. HUGS

[mlyster]

It is always bad to have a week when ONE friend announces a pregnancy. I can not imagine having that many! You are doing very well to still be in shape enough to type (i don't think I would be). Congrats on that

You are right, unless you go through it you can not understand how much or how long lasting the feelings are. Definitely glad you have this board and these ladies!!

[..Jessica..]

Oh, I'm sorry girl!!!! Hearing that someone is pregnant so soon after a m/c is never easy, but 5 of your friends?

I'm sorry your friend was so insensitive as well! Not nice of her at all!!

[mum74]

I thought I was having a hard time with ONE friend announcing her pregnancy this week. It must be very hard for you. Also my friend had a baby the week after my miscarriage and like you, I thought it would be hard but it really wasn't. I visited in hospital and I was fine and happy for them. I think I was okay because she was always going to have her baby before me...whereas anyone (like your friends) who get pregnant now...well sort of makes you feel like you should have been further ahead of them...and you're not... so it sucks basically...

[.:Shortcake:.]

Huge hugs hun. I still feel the same way. I'm not sure you ever get to the point where you will be 100% okay with seeing someone pregnant. But I hope it gets easier for you.

[charm]

Hmmm I didn't realise that was still bothering I am sorry but *** I would have lost the plot right there I hope you are doing okay life really isn't fair sometimes I really hope you get a bfp really soon

[lex1078]

People who haven't been through it, just don't get it. It's hard for them to understand. I'm sorry you had such a tough couple of weeks. I hope things get better for you soon.

[farasha]

Wow. Well, I don't think anyone else can really know how we feel. I think one pregnant friend might be able to slide... but 5!!!!??? I couldn't handle that either! I'm be upset too! That's just ridiculous!!!!!! I'm glad you can vent to us! And I really hope you get your + HPT this month... I know you'll feel better then. Hugs hun.

[Alpha_allie1010]

Thanks for all of your support! I am feeling much better today. My friend that made the comment "I didnt know that still bothered you" show up later with my favorite wine and let me vent.....it was well needed