[dragonfly2006]

Ok so I said a few months ago that I was going to relax and not try to ttc...meaning no testing, no I am about to O lets BD just relax and let it happen, so I have been expecting my periods and they have been coming right on time and all has been ok...so this month I expected AF to come and she didnt so each day I was like ok she will come tomorrow and she didnt so last night I am thinking I am 3days late almost 4 and that never happens so I tested and got a BFN so i am so confused...why cant AF just come and get on with her bad self??? My boobs hurt like someone is squeezing them as hard as they can, my back hurts like i have been punched, i am grumpy as H***, I went to bed last night at like 7pm...its like ok I know you are there just show your face and lets get on with it...I am trying to relax and you are filling my head with false hope...sorry for the vent but im super done with this stuff, I am now 4 days late...more like 6 if you go by the normal 28days...Please come AF and put me out of my misery!!!

[.:Shortcake:.]

Huge hugs hun. I feel the same way. I am still having Negative tests but I feel pregnant! And I just wish if AF was coming she could at least be on time.

[Trish36]

That is so frustrating...it's like she's teasing you on purpose. Well you never know..this could be it and maybe the BFP is just a bit late. I would see your dr. for a bt if AF doesn't show up in a few days.

[szczepanski]

I am so feeling your frustration. I am waiting for my first AF since my m/c so we can start getting down to it.

I o'd like 3 weeks ago. Last week my skin went haywire and I was such a cranky butt. Sometimes over the last 2 days I've had a little bit of spotting. Come on AF. I will throw you a party if you show up.

[Ryleeroo]

It seems we are all in the same boat... I so feel for you sweetie! Your right........IT IS VERY FRUSTRATING! hoping you get a SOON!

[missy123]

I understand your frustration. When I was waiting for my first cycle after the D&C it was like Come on already! I hope in your case you are going to get a BFP!

[Kary♥RN]

I hate this!! It is not fair.. you go through a loss, and all the heartbreaks of BFN's everymonth After you try so hard to time it right, keep relaxed, and keep sane... Hopefully this will be a late BFP.... I am praying for you!

[photogmama]

hoping that af shows her ugly face or you get a bfp...the not knowing is what makes me insane!

[tobynscarlett]

It's a horribly frustrating emotional rollercoaster and I know it hurts to think about it. Wishing you goo news very soon!!

[~~~Sara~~~]

Oh I am so sorry, I hope you get your good news soon.

[..Penelope..]

That must be so frustrating. I'm sorry I hope that all of you ladies either get RB soon, or a late BFP! *HUGS*

[KDD]

Before I started charting and we were NTNP I had 2 cycles where I was late like that. I'd get excited, test, and bet a BFN. I'm sure now that I must have O'ed late. It's so frustrating!

[starrsgirl]

Hoping for the BFP for you!

[jen805]

I hope it's a late BFP!!

[Boble]

oh hun i know your frustration. I started charting again for that very reason, so i would at least know when af was due as it was being screwy - NTNP is hard too, especially when our bodies don't do what we expect of them.

I hope you get some answers soon

[klt]

I feel bad that you have to wait...it just seems so unfair. I hope your BFP is waiting to show so that you get some good news. I'll keep my fingers and toes crossed for you! Hang in there. If AF shows, maybe charting until you O would help you know what to expect of your cycle. I found that knowing when I O'd was useful, but, the obsessing over the DPO temps was making me crazy! Just a thought. KUP

[dragonfly2006]

Thank you for your comments..im still showing BFN and No AF so im confused..the DR. says wait till monday and if no AF or BFP then call back I hate not knowing...