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May 31st, 2009, 01:04 PM
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as I said in the other post I am 8 days late and still getting BFNs...my concern is that im having pain in my right side...i just talked to my Dr. and she thinks I just didnt ovulate this cycle...what the h***!@!! what does it mean that i didnt Ovulate??? Is there a problem????? I have been ttc for almost 3 years now..is that my problem? i dont always O??? im so upset right now I thought for sure I was pregnant
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May 31st, 2009, 01:09 PM
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hugs I am really sorry you are going through this. I too am also late mine only by 4 days and yeah I am beginning to wonder if I even O'ed either this month.

I hope that you O soon and that you catch that egg!!
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May 31st, 2009, 03:15 PM
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Oh, this must be so frustrating! What does the doc want you to do? Maybe you're Oing now???? If that's the case, quick, catch the egg!!!! Do you temp or use ovulation predictors? Just wondering. Both BBTs and the kits really helped me figure out my wacky cycles after my loss. Good luck and KUP. (I'm hoping you still get your BFP this cycle!)
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May 31st, 2009, 03:22 PM
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I can't imagine how frustrating it is, trying to figure out our crazy bodies. I hope something shows up soon and your able to get your answers.
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May 31st, 2009, 04:07 PM
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Are you charting at all or using OPK? Why does your doctor think you didn't O?? It could be that you O'd later than you think and that's why you are still getting BFN. I can tell you that when I was pregnant around 5 1/2 weeks I would get these sharp pains by the ovary and after doing an u/s the doctor determined that it was the corpus luteum cyst bothering me. Will your doctor do a blood test to double check if there are any traces of hcg in your system?? good luck - I hope it's just a late BFP.
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May 31st, 2009, 10:11 PM
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my sister had wacky cycles like this, and had bad pains as well. She went to the dr. for that and the fact that she tried to concieve for two years after her son. Turns out she was not ovulating, the eggs were being absorbed into a cyst that just kept getting bigger and bigger. Finally with the size of a grapefruit on her tube, she went on the pill for 4 months to get the cyst to go away and regulate her cycles. She got pregnant about a few months off of the pill. I hope you catch whatever it is in time before to much time goes by and pain. Good luck to you.
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Hoping its just a late AF! KUP
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June 1st, 2009, 10:46 AM
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Thats the thing...my cycles are right on target every month..i dont have messed up or late AF its always the same....I went for an U/S 1 week ago and the said my cyst was gone and the results were normal...so whats going on???
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June 1st, 2009, 10:55 AM
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Jeez that's frustrating. I think it's normal not to O once in a while but having normal cycles I wouldn't worry too much. Getting some internet cheapie ovulation strips would be my advice. And if you do have some pain maybe you're O'ing right now, could this have been a wacky cycle due to stress, diet, exercise??? I've only had a couple times in my life where I've just altogether skipped a period for no apparent reason. When I was in college I just blamed it on stress, so who knows?
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June 1st, 2009, 12:29 PM
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I never have wacky cycles though..i have had my AF for 10years now and never once have skipped or been late or whatever so I dont know....
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June 1st, 2009, 06:09 PM
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I wish I had answers for you but I don't. I hope this all gets resolved soon for you.
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June 2nd, 2009, 05:44 AM
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i hope you figure things out soon hun. it's horrible to be in limbo wondering what is going on. i've been there!!! good luck, i hope AF shows very soon and your next cycle is back on track.
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