Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Spring Hill, TN
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Yesterday we were at Target and DH was looking at some weed killer... while he did that me and the kids were strolling through the baby stuff... my son said "Mom why are we looking at this stuff?".. I responded with "well honey, mommy is hoping that we get to buy some of this stuff soon... mommy really wants to add a baby to our family." My daughter then perks up (she's 6) and says "Yeah mommy, I really hope that if you have another baby that you don't lose it... and I hope it's a girl".
That just broke my heart so much, my loss really effected my kids too... This is just so hard, and I'm sure walking through all the baby stuff at target did NOT help me at all... I just keep day dreaming about the baby... who they will be, what they will be like... Does it really have to be this hard?
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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awww... sweety, that is hard. it will happen for you soon!!! My dd also took my m/c very hard (she's 9). wishing you lots of baby dust this cycle!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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Hugs!!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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Awww.... I am so sorry. My sons are older and were more concerned about my health and that I am ok. They have been great support though.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
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HUGS... It is so hard having a loss and than this, it will happen... an than it will all be worth the heartach of the TTC rollercoaster. HUGS
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Spring Hill, TN
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Thanks girls! You are all awesome.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
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Aww
My niece told me that she wanted me to have a baby. Kids are so sweet
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,055
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 My kids took our m/c really hard also they are 7 and 9 I am thinking next time I will be to scared to tell them until I really have to but I am not very good at keeping secrets either it's all too hard on everyone involved I think..
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Hugs!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 7,700
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Awww Jen.. I am so sorry. It is hard to go into the baby section.. I went into it yesterday and was looking at all the stuff I was eye bawling while I was pregnant.. I think I am not going to tell anyone next time around until I am in the clear.. It is so hard.. Some ppl still don't know and ask how the baby and I are, and I have to tell them..It is really hard..
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: So. California
Posts: 5,770
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I'm so sorry, it does take a toll on the entire family. but just think how happy they will be when they have that baby sibling home in your arms.
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