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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Lots of stuff has been going on in my personal life, that I won't put out right here for everyone to read..however.. Diego and I are taking a break.
June has never been an easy month for me, my BFP anniversary, my Angelversary with Quinn, amongst other days. June is NOT my friend.
I'm just really stressed about a lot of stuff, mostly money and dealing with physio and everything following the accident. I'm just a giant stress sponge and I can't deal with much more of it.
I've decided to step back from TTC completely. I don't know when I'll be ready for it again. Right now is not the right time for me with everything going on. I'm not working, in pain constantly, yadda yadda.
Anyway... I'll still be here, if you'll have me! I honestly don't know where I'd be without you girls and this board.
Jess
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Huge hugs hun! I am so sorry that your going thru all of this. If you ever need to talk you can PM me at any time!
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Mom of 4
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Jess...sorry June brings back so many sad memories. HUGS!!!! Maybe taking a break is a good thing and that's all your body and mind needs right now. Of course we want you to stick around..what would we do without you?????
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Spring Hill, TN
Posts: 10,000
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Im so sorry sweety ((HUGS))
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Posts: 1,288
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Im so sorry, hope all works out soon
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Texas
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BIG HUGS for you Jess...that old saying "it never rains, it pours" i've always found true...sometimes bad things just all happen together and it can be totally overwhelming. I hope things turn around quickly for you, that you feel better soon and take whatever time you need...a break for TTC will probably leave you recharged for when you're ready to tackle it again.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 2,362
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Jessica - I hate hearing that you are having such a tough time of things. I hope things start to go better soon (and that sounds awful and insincere but it is not meant to be). Perhaps something great will happen soon and it will fill June with good memories for the future.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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 I'm sorry that all this is happening for you all at once. I hope that things will turn around for you soon. We are all here for you if you need us!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,716
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Hi Jess... i hope things ease up for you soon... sounds like you have been having a massive run of bad luck! And Im sorry to hear June is not your friend *hugs*
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 10,829
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Jess, I'm so sorry
Please don't leave! What would we do without you?
Huge *HUGS*
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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Thank you girls!!!
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
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 hunny.
i remember how hard you had it last june too.
i love you girl and remember we are always here for you 
xx
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,055
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Jess,I really hope things get better and I am sorry June is a yucky month for you  ttc can be so stressful goodluck and pls pls don't leave us xxoo.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Missouri
Posts: 1,862
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Quote:
Originally Posted by L-SBB
BIG HUGS for you Jess...that old saying "it never rains, it pours" i've always found true...sometimes bad things just all happen together and it can be totally overwhelming. I hope things turn around quickly for you, that you feel better soon and take whatever time you need...a break for TTC will probably leave you recharged for when you're ready to tackle it again.
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I totally agree with Lara!
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Jess big huge
I hope things turn around for you soon...remember last fall when I got hurt at work and lost my job and didn't get unemployment and had no money and had to go to the doctor constantly and deal with lawyers all the time....so I understand alot of what you're going through! It's eerily similar and let me tell you it WILL get better.
I PM'd you back btw. Love you girl and we are all here for you whether you're TTC or not! And you better stick around this board!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 11,084
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Yes I remember, Erika..that was a mess.
I don't know where I'd be without the support from you girls..really.
Thank you all again!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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Jessica, HUGS.... Things will all work themselves out.. have faith knowing we are all here for you! XOXOXOX
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 4,213
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Jess...I'm so sorry that things just are not going well for you. I hope the break for you and Diego helps and that June turns out OK. You KNOW you can PM me anytime if you need to vent. And, you know I'll be thinking of you  We need you around, so don't go anywhere! I just hope the pain from the accident starts going away so that things can start to fall into place. You deserve a great JULY! Hugs!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Posts: 1,571
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Hugs Jessica!!! I'm sorry things haven't been going well this month. But it will be over soon, and I hope things get better SOON! We want you to stay with us! You know that!!!
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