[Mom2DyJessAva]

i dont want to wait..i want to be pregnant..

[.:Shortcake:.]

G/L hun! Pray you get a BFP soon and its a sticky one!

[..Jessica..]

I'm sorry girl!!!!

[Boble]

[Trish36]

[..Penelope..]

*HUGS* honey.

Was there a reason that you were waiting? I'm sorry that I don't know your background story...

[KDD]

[Loving6]

I'm with you girly.I'm not waiting either.Good Luck and hope you get a sticky BFP!!!

[Mom2DyJessAva]

the doctor said to wait two months.....if it doesnt happens im okay with it cause i no when its my time it will but id hate to wait two months and regret not trying you no?

[madmum_sarah]

hun
i remember those early days so well. one min i didnt think i was ready but then i would wake up yearning to be pregnant again.
i had to take a step back from ttc a few times and i regret doing it in some ways but now i look back and think if i hadnt, i wouldnt be sure i was trying for the right reasons and not just because i was grieving for the baby i lost.
the start of this pregnancy (actually until around 20 weeks) i spent not connecting with this baby for fear of it happening again and it was so hard.
i hope your time comes soon and you get your sticky bean but please, do remember to allow yourself to grieve for the one you lost.

xxx

[..Penelope..]

I completely understand that feeling. I went on a crazy rollercoaster ride of baby fever, confusion and fear after my miscarriage. I had to step back and tell myself that I was going to allow for atleast a few months to pass by, to give myself time to grieve for Autumn and to make sure that I was emotionally stable enough to make a decision like trying for another baby. However, my situation was a little different then yours - Autumn was a surprise, and DB and I had always thought of kids as more of a long term plan. We didn't even know that we could get pregnant naturally.

Now we'll probably be waiting atleast a year and a half before we TTC. The fear that I will regret waiting is always there in the back of my mind.

Did the doctor give you a reason for requesting that you wait two months? I know that the first cycle is so that they can date the pregnancy by your lmp, and to give the lining of your uterus time to build up. Sometimes the rest of the time is what the doctor feels you may need to be ready emotionally, not physically.

Good luck, hon. We're here for you no matter what.

[Kary♥RN]

HUGS I hope it happens quickly when you start ttc!

[amandakay29]

Hugs!! I hope you decide what to do and you get your BFP ASAP!

[~Lynda~]

yea, i get it too!!! all too well. my dr. told me that if my body wasn't ready, it wouldn't do it. so we tried, but nothing has happened yet. i'm on my 3rd cycle post m/c. hoping this one is it!!! do what your heart tells you to do, it will be ok!!! HUGS

[klt]

Whatever you decide...we're here! I know how hard it is to wait... hoping everything works out!

[mum74]

I know the feeling - I did wait but as it was only one cycle I was told to wait I managed it...but it was hard.

[Mel1979]

I know exactly how you feel. I had a D&C on the 22nd of May and I was going to wait one cycle until I had a proper AF to give my body time to recover but my ob said there is no physical reason to wait as we won't conceive unless my body is ready. All I want is to be pg again so although we are not officially trying this month (it's a little difficult to pinpoint o when I don't know how long it will take for AF to return) we are not doing anything to prevent it from happening either.

Good luck and I hope we are both pg with sticky little beans soon

[charm]

I totally get it too I am on my 3rd cycle since our m/c we started ttc straight away the DR said to wait it hasn't happened yet hopefully this month but it won't happen until your body is ready that is my belief goodluck I hope you get your bfp really soon thinking of it is the only thing that gets me through the day!!

[Mom2DyJessAva]

thanks guys...i hope everyone gets there bfp and has a sticky bean

[Momeejenjen]

((HUGS)) I am sorry hun!