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Mom2DyJessAva · #1 June 5th, 2009, 03:53 AM

its been harder to get pregnant after your loss or is it about the same?

mum74 · #2 June 5th, 2009, 05:05 AM

I'll have to let you know on that one! I am hoping that I will be able to answer that it is 'about the same'. We conceived ds#1 the 4th month ttc, ds#2 the 3rd month ttc and my third pregnancy (my m/c) was the 2nd month ttc. This is my 3rd cycle post miscarriage and my 2nd cycle ttc... so at the moment I'm just crossing my fingers.

MrsB1227 · #3 June 5th, 2009, 05:24 AM

it's still early, but it's been slightly harder for me. i got pg my second cycle trying the first time around. I am now in my third cycle TTC, let's hope third time's the charm for me!

.:Shortcake:. · #4 June 5th, 2009, 05:38 AM

The first time I got pg the 3rd cycle and this time I'm up to the 5th time ... so its harder for me.

Momeejenjen · #5 June 5th, 2009, 05:45 AM

I am on month 7 and clomid and progestrone therapy... definatly harder.

mlyster · #6 June 5th, 2009, 05:48 AM

For me it has been harder. But I think it has taken 2 cycles to get my body back to normal (I say that now - we shall see at then end of this 2ww if that is even true). I got pg in our second cycle but we are on our third now since the m/c.

However, I know women who got pregnant much easier after m/c than before. My cousin took 2 years to concieve her first, then she got pg again very quickly after (about 8 months after) but that ended in a m/c. The first cycle after the m/c she was pregnant again!

PixieQueen · #7 June 5th, 2009, 06:04 AM

It's been easier for me. It took me 9 mo with my DD, 5 mo with my loss, and only 3 with my current pregnancy. I hope it's the same for you!

#8 June 5th, 2009, 06:51 AM

It took me 8 months to get pg with my loss. I m/c'd Oct 07 and started trying again Jan 08 and I'm still trying, so definitely harder!

missy123 · #9 June 5th, 2009, 07:17 AM

My cycles are so different now and I have no idea what is going on with my body anymore. Before this loss, I was 21 days faithfully.... even after having the boys! Now I don't know what is going on. So I say harder.

..Jessica.. · #10 June 5th, 2009, 08:29 AM

With my pregnancy we weren't trying. We were sleeping together for just over 2 months when it happened though. As for after my miscarriage, I haven't gotten pregnant since...but I haven't been trying either.