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June 5th, 2009, 03:36 PM
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I am about to O. I can feel it... I am tempted to cancel my uterine biopsy and try this cycle... I didn't know it would be so hard to prevent... We have NPNT before, but Dr said we have to use condoms or he won't do the test... What do you girls think? I will be so mad if I skip this month and nothing shows on the test...
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June 5th, 2009, 03:46 PM
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If you skip doing the uterine biopsy this month, then you have to do it next month, correct? What if you get pregnant this month and there IS something there that they need to get rid of?

I don't know girl, I'd go with it this month. Better to know that there's nothing there, IMO!

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June 5th, 2009, 08:43 PM
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Ooooh...this is a tough one alright. I might go for the biopsy if it were me...just because I would be afraid to lose another pg if there was something that could be "fixed". But i'm a "fixer" to the max and am always looking for answers. Ultimately, follow your heart and KUP.
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June 6th, 2009, 02:52 AM
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i've just had one of those done and the results came back showing too many t-helper cells... it was the only thing they found it all the tests I had done. so, im glad i had it done now.

I would say you have come this far... you have gotten pretty much all the way up to O - you might as well get it done this cycle so you can continue ttc with a little less stress.. and if they don't find something then that is overall a good result - but if they do, then you have a bit more information to work with and to help get your forever baby.

good luck with whatever you decide *hugs*
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June 6th, 2009, 03:16 AM
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I think the other ladies have said what I would say. I know it's really tempting but I think I would also have the biopsy because if it finds something, then the doctor/s can work out how to help for your next pregnancy, and if they don't, then ultimately it is peace of mind while ttc/or especially once your are pregnant then something you don't have to worry about. When is your biopsy?
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June 6th, 2009, 04:19 AM
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I agree with the other ladies! I would have the biopsy done. G/L with whatever you choose! Hugs!
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June 6th, 2009, 05:08 AM
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i know it's hard to know you're Oing and not respond, but i would do the test and know forsure!! G/L
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June 6th, 2009, 05:52 AM
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But, it is truly your decision. Let us know what you decide! That's a tough one, especially when your body's hormones are telling you to TTC
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June 8th, 2009, 08:32 AM
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I would get the biopsy done, but I'd probably be just as conflicted about missing O. Good luck with whatever you decide!
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June 8th, 2009, 12:42 PM
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If it was me, as hard as it might be, I would keep the appointment and at least know that you are going into any future pregnancy fully aware of what obstacles you might be facing. Good luck making the decision.
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June 8th, 2009, 02:45 PM
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I would do the test...just so you know that everything looks good or you know more about what you are dealing with. Its so hard to make that choice to wait or not. This whole process is a waiting game!
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June 8th, 2009, 05:49 PM
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Even if nothing comes back, that does still tell you something useful.
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