[ThankingGOD4my2girls]

If you all remember last month I O'd on my own and I thought I had Implantation bleeding but it wasnt and I started my AF a day earlier than I expected. Well when I got my positive OPK's last month it was on CD's 18 19 and 20. Well today I am now on CD 11 and I got a positive OPK today and also I have EWCM and my cervix is slightly opened. Is this normal? Should I be O'ing this soon? I am so excited that I am O'ing on my own again but I dont know that to think about getting a positive OPK on CD 11 and O'ing this soon when it was CD 18 last month. I hope it is normal and I can still get pregnant. I thought a woman was supposed to O on the same day every month but I guess it does depend on cycles doesnt it lol.

[Boble]

when you O can change, but generally speaking the time from when you O to AF arriving will be the same.. so your luteal (sp?) phase is the same.

It is most definitely possible to O earlier this cycle... and I say, if in doubt BD

[photogmama]

I say BD the day and night away! Our bodies are such complex things, there is just no figuring them out completely!

Good luck catching that egg!

[mmllhh]

My O dates is like that. I got from day 14 to 21 depending on the month.

[HarpersGirl]

Ya know, I got really confused about the O'ing thing soo I really avoid trying to find out when I O! When I became pregnant with Kaleb, we only DTD once and that was 1 day after AF stoped. Thats quite some time off from when normal people O! This time, I concentrated on DTD around the normal text-book O time, and we became pregnant. Soo honestly, I have two VERY different times I could have O'd.... our bodys are amazing, and a P-I-T-A most days!

Good luck, hope this is your month!

[klt]

Oing can change each month. I'm so glad you're Oing on your own, and Oing early puts you into the 2ww that many days earlier. Yay! I hope you're Oing and I hope you catch that egg! KUP and G/L

[Loving6]

I agree O can vary month to month.It usually hangs around the same time but can change due to stress,change in exercise,illness and anything else out of the norm.I say BD<BD and BD some more Good Luck!!!

[..Jessica..]

I'm honestly not sure... Just jump on DH!

[Kary♥RN]

When in doubt BD! BD! BD!

[.:Shortcake:.]

Your cycles may still be messed up but its great that your Oing on your own! Now go BD with your DH!

[MrsB1227]

Get to bd'ing girly! Good luck!

[Trish36]

I don't O on the same day either. It must be that our bodies are still 'confused' after the m/c. Last cycle I O'd on cd12 - this cycle I O'd on cd14. Also stress and other factors can push your O time off by a bit also.