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June 10th, 2009, 07:37 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Just wanted to let you ladies in on the doctor visit I had yesterday, I'm off for my betas now... urrghhh!
http://www.justmommies.com/forums/f1...right-now.html
And my test that I am clearly reading wrong??
What a wonderful thing to say to someone who wants this baby soo badly, and just lost our last one....
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June 10th, 2009, 07:43 AM
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Thats a gorgeous BFP! You know what would make it look even better? Taking it to the office and shoving it up at that Dr's. ***. Unless there is something already up there taking up all the room. 
And CONGRATS!!!
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June 10th, 2009, 07:51 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I cannot believe they are treating you like that! I would def take the test in there and show them! =) Congrats on your BFP!
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June 10th, 2009, 08:22 AM
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Veteran
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Thats crazy! I HATE adamant doctors...and he's down-right insensitive! I'm praying your blood results shoves his tail between his legs! Good luck!
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June 10th, 2009, 08:52 AM
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Mom of 4
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OMG - what an @$$hole! that is a beautiful BFP you have and hopefully he's there tomorrow to see the beta and eat his hat!
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June 10th, 2009, 10:26 AM
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Regular
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Definitely take that in there....I'd like him to deny that BFP! Congrats sweetie!
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June 10th, 2009, 10:37 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry Donna, I can't wait to hear your Betas!
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June 10th, 2009, 12:14 PM
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I don't need a medical degree to see that you're pregnant. My GYN/RE says that HPTs are as accurate as in office tests these days.
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June 10th, 2009, 12:15 PM
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Veteran
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when will you get the results????!!!!!
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June 10th, 2009, 01:24 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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He's an idiot! I can't wait to hear about the reaction on his face when he sees what we're seeing!
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June 10th, 2009, 01:28 PM
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Super Mommy
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What a jerk! Are you sure you want to stick with that practice? Wonder if that arrogant jerk is the one who ends up delivering your baby? Good luck with the betas!
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June 10th, 2009, 01:35 PM
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Super Mom to Six
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Some doctor think they know more about YOUR body then you do.I'm glad your beautiful BFP is BLARING!!!!
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June 10th, 2009, 01:36 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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UMMM how could you possibly read that wrong?? What a jack$&&.
Congrats on the beutiful BFP!!!
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June 10th, 2009, 03:58 PM
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THAT is a beeeeeaUtiful BFP!! And I hope he turns bright red and feels like a giant arse when he reads your beta results!
HPT are almost ALWAYS more sensitive than tests at doctor's offices. Even digi's are typically more sensitive. Most hpt pick up 20-25 mIU and the one's at doc offices can range from 50 to 100mIU!!!
Can't wait to hear how the appt went! 
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June 10th, 2009, 05:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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i would put in a formal complaint about him.. doctors like that need to know that they are doing a crap *** job. Just shocking. clearly he doesn't know his but from his elbow.. and went to medical school at a clown college - qrgh.. sorry, I hate doctors that don't listen.
I look forward to hearing about your positive beta results
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June 10th, 2009, 07:44 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Sorry I didnt get back till now guys!
This doctor.. urrghh! First off, he's just a clinic doctor here that was taking my doctors place for the day. HE WILL be getting my results though, and I hope those numbers jump off the page and slap him upside the head. This past 24 hours I have been soo nervous, running to the bathroom and checking for spotting, freaking if I dont feel pain my BB's every 30mins, itching to test again just to make sure it still comes up positive. I mean he's got me in a wreck here, double guessing myself and just over annalysing everything little ping or pain thinking I am going to loose this one too. Thankfully, as soon as my BETAs come back positive, I go right to a ob/gyn and skip the doctors offices. My doctor was a sweatheart and was very sympathetic and tried everything for me when I was loosing my little one, this guy was an insensitive jerk!!
I went this morning for a urine and blood test. Funny thing is, I pee'd before going to the hospital, I JUST HAD TOO! lol Soo, my second urine was actually twice as concetrated as the FMU, soo hopefully I dont blow that urine test too. My results will come back Friday, I should have a phone call Friday afternoon. I am praying they are good numbers and not something stupid low, that will just send me over the edge right now. I am soo scared its unfit. I just want something good to happen, something that will reasure me I am ok, at least for now. And this doctor didnt help!!
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June 10th, 2009, 08:48 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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When I went to the doc with my first pregnancy I got told the same thing. When I went for my betas they were of course positive. By that time I had switched doctors. I cant believe how much of a jerk he was- he literally told me that "I shouldnt bet on it." I hope your positive beta makes this guy realize how wrong he was (with some jerks though they just never realize it). I hope you dont worry too much. You know in your heart that he is wrong.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.
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June 10th, 2009, 10:41 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hopefully when he realises he was wrong he will change his attitude towards patients in the future and not treat them as if they don't have a clue. I know that doesn't help YOU though.
I'm sorry he has caused you so much worry.
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June 11th, 2009, 03:32 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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What is it with Dr's when we are trying to conceive they turn into dirt bags that is horrible that he second guessed you after so many + preg tests I can't wait to hear his reaction when he reads you bt results I really hope your normal GP is more sympathetic than that. Tell him to go and burst someone elses bubble!!
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June 11th, 2009, 04:52 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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lol thanks guys! One more day... still very very nervous! Maybe I should go back in tomorrow, insted of waiting till Monday to see my doctor. I know he'll be there tomorrow... urrghhh.
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