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June 11th, 2009, 06:13 AM
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I O today and told DH last night before we DTD, and he got cold feet. He doesn't want another baby right now and as badly as I do, I have to respect his wishes. It just makes me so sad because if I hadn't had a m/c he wouldn't have the chance to shoot me down like this, y'know? I brought that up and he said "Well, we'd just have to deal with it" if I were still pregnant. I wanted to hit him!
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June 11th, 2009, 07:19 AM
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So sorry hun! I know what you mean. My DH wasn't too thrilled to be trying for another one either. It took some convincing on my part. Hope he comes around soon!!!
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June 11th, 2009, 08:30 AM
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I'm sorry your husband feels that way. Are you using any form of b/c? If not, and he is aware of that fact, then I wouldn't feel that need to clue him in on the ups and downs of your cycle. Since we have never used b/c, my husband knows that everytime we dtd there is the possibillity of conception. JMO. Hopefully he will come around soon!
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June 11th, 2009, 09:03 AM
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I'm sorry, hon. *HUGS*
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June 11th, 2009, 02:38 PM
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I'm sorry hun. That must be a bad feeling. But I'm sure you guys will talk it through. I hope a BFP is in your near future!
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I agree with Laura.... If you guys are NP.... than I wouldn't say a word.... Good Luck... I hope he agrees to start ttc soon!!!
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June 11th, 2009, 03:14 PM
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I am sorry, I hope that you two will be on the same page soon and you can TTC. It must be heartbreaking because as much as I want another baby I could not do it without my husband's full support, hugs!

And OMG you have a pug, I have a pug. I love her! Tell me all about yours and take your mind off TTC. Your son is very cute too! Are they buddies?
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June 11th, 2009, 03:29 PM
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DH has wised up and checks my FF regularly, so he knows when I'm O-ing - too smart for his own good!

And my pug is freakin' hilarious! His name is Doug and I swear he's a cat sometimes with the noises he makes. He and DS are total buddies, they were born a month apart and have grown up together.
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June 11th, 2009, 03:49 PM
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DH has wised up and checks my FF regularly, so he knows when I'm O-ing - too smart for his own good!

And my pug is freakin' hilarious! His name is Doug and I swear he's a cat sometimes with the noises he makes. He and DS are total buddies, they were born a month apart and have grown up together.
Awww I love Doug! Pugs DO make funny noises huh!
Our girl is Co-Pilot and she's going to be 4, we got her first and then waited for her to et out of the puppy stage, then got preggo with Carter, they are also best buds!

Sorry about your DH checking FF, that's funny in a way, but I guess he's serious about waiting
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June 11th, 2009, 04:53 PM
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i hope you and dh are able to agree to ttc soon. that would be so hard when you are so ready *hugs*
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