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June 13th, 2009, 11:14 AM
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The last couple of days have been a huge emotional roller coaster for me.

Yesterday (Friday) DH accepted a job offer. He's been unemployed for 4 months. We are both so happy and wanted to get away for a few days before he starts.

We booked a 5 day trip to Las Vegas. We leave very early Monday morning, so I won't be around until next weekend.

This morning (14DPO) my temps were still up so I tested. This means that AF will be here by tomorrow and will be coming on vacation with us

I also realized this morning that although DH has had the paperwork for his SA for 2 months, he still hasn't made the appt. Now, because he starts work next Monday, who knows when he'll be able to take the time to go

I've gone from happy, to sad, to pissed, and now just overall depressed. I hate TTC!
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June 13th, 2009, 11:27 AM
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HUGS Kim.... I guess it is one of those days.... I just replied back to you in our private place.... TTC SUCKS! I agree with you!!!! SUCKS, SUCKS, SUCKS...... HUGS
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June 13th, 2009, 03:50 PM
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Well, I'm sorry about your BFN, but I'm happy that DH got a job (and I hope he loves it!) and I'm very glad to hear you both are taking some time to get away. Have fun!!!!! Sometimes you just need that vacation to clear your head!
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June 13th, 2009, 03:57 PM
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Yeah for Vegas! Just focus on the good right now. Where will you stay? What will you do? Will you see some shows? Will you win big? My picture in my siggy is actually from our Vegas vacation at the show Zumanity (in the New York New York casino). I recommend it.

Big hugs from me too! Stay strong over there.
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June 13th, 2009, 05:57 PM
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Can I go with you??? Vegas sounds like tons of fun (with or without AF). I am also so happy to hear that your DH will be working again, that must be a big relief!!! I know it is frustrating that he hasn't made the appointment yet, but try not to be too hard on him... Men seem to have an extremely hard time functioning when they are out of work. It seems like the only thing they can get done are the mindless stupid things. It was probably really hard for him to cope with the worry of not working, then he just couldn't take the stress of the Dr too. In his mind he may have been scared he would disappoint you in both ways, by not working AND by having problems with his swimmers Things will get better!!! I hope you have a great trip=- send us all a postcard and we expect pics when you get back!!!
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Vegas is so much fun! We went a few years ago and had a blast....and yes AF came with us that time too. Boo for the BFN, but you never know!! Don't give up hope until she shows her ugly head. Sorry that DH hasn't done the SA yet.
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June 13th, 2009, 09:19 PM
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Yeah for Vegas! Just focus on the good right now. Where will you stay? What will you do? Will you see some shows? Will you win big? My picture in my siggy is actually from our Vegas vacation at the show Zumanity (in the New York New York casino). I recommend it.
We're staying at the Venetian. We have tickets to Zumanity and to Phantom. And to get in the mood we went to see "The Hangover" tonight!

It will be fun to get away!
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June 13th, 2009, 09:25 PM
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Yeah Zumanity!!!! You will love love love it! Take some pictures! We are planning to see the Phantom when we go next year...you'll have to let me know how it is.
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Ooooooh I am SO jealous!!!! The last time I went to Vegas....I was 14 and with my Grandparents, hahaha.

I hope you guys have a wonderful time!

And even better......Congrats on DH finding a job!!! I am nearing the end of a contract myself and I am so scared about it not being renewed - the only reason I was offered the contract was because I was laid off another by another company...so I can only hope I get renewed or "laid off" so I can file myself........its a scary time out there!
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June 13th, 2009, 09:34 PM
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Enjoy Vegas girl! We also saw Zumanity, but my FAVORITE was La Reve at the Wynn. I bet Phantom is really good there, loved it when I saw it years ago in Los Angeles.

Sorry about the tough TTC journey, I hope you have fun and have a great month, next month!
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big big hugs girl!!! i'm glad DH got a job and you're off on vacation. have fun!!!! make him get his SA!!!! I'm sorry AF is going with you!!!!!! HUGS (maybe you'll get a surprise bfp?????)
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I'm so glad that DH got a job. It was a long and hard road. But, I'm so sad that he didn't make that appointment! He needs to get that taken care of...NOW! I hope you have a great trip. UPdate us when you get back.
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I hope you enjoy your trip. I'm sorry for the BFN though. TTC does suck.
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Sorry for the BFN, hon.

Congratulations to your DH on getting a job! Have lots of fun in Vegas!!
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