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June 16th, 2009, 10:10 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Somerville, Ma
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Hi ladies. I am Heather. I joined this group in Oct of 08. I had a loss on Oct 25th, 2008. I was a VERY active member for months after. However, a computer loss (my 9 yr old daughter dropped a BIG glass of tea on my laptop...the day I got it back from a hard drive crash), gave me the excuse I needed. I have been ttc since Feb of 08...Now it has been 17 months with one early m/c and nothing else. The computer problems were legit, but exactly the break that I needed. I have two beautiful daughters (from a previous marriage) that were both conceived on types of birth control. So, the frustration of not being able to conceive is that much harder. I have always loved the ladies on this board...but, coming back after less than 2 months and seeing so many new faces and not so many old faces is REALLY hard. My partner and I are not married...therefore, he has wonderful health insurance and I have none. So, if we don't get married or pg on our own soon...I don't know what is going to happen. I REALLY don't want to whine. I am here for all of you. I WILL NOT have the time to go back through all of the posts to know who all of you are. Please respond to this crazy post with the essentials. I promise to pay attention and not dissapear again. TTC after LOSS is so much harder than I ever imagined. Love you Jess, Kim, Kelty...etc etc etc
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June 17th, 2009, 01:01 AM
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formally sarah_the_sane_1
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: scotland uk
Posts: 15,407
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heather my love 
i know i have pmed you but i wanted to say welcome back here too.
i dont post so much anymore but i am still here 
xxx
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June 17th, 2009, 02:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,716
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hi Heather.. im Bel.. one of the new ladies here. there are a heap of us who came from another board and everyone here is just wonderful!
I look forward to getting to know you
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June 17th, 2009, 03:31 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
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Hi I'm Katie! There is a thread called ladies who crossed over from the other side. It has us all introducing ourselves if you want to read it! =) Welcome back.
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June 17th, 2009, 06:09 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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hi heather. i'm still here too!! glad to see ya back. wondered what happened to you!!! hoping we get our bfps soon girl!!!
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June 17th, 2009, 07:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 4,213
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Heather!!!!!!!!!! I'm so glad you're back! I missed you! I'm still around! You know you can PM me any time you need to vent. We're all here for you and we're glad you're back! big hugs!!!!!
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June 17th, 2009, 07:55 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 16,285
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Heather, so gald to see you back!! I'm still lurking around here too.
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June 17th, 2009, 08:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Posts: 1,288
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Hi heather im still here....my name is stephanie
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June 17th, 2009, 09:32 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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Hi Heather!! I'm still here... the old thorka... Glad to have you back!!!
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June 17th, 2009, 10:54 AM
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Hi-Tech Hippie
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Richland, WA
Posts: 6,038
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Heather! I've been wondering about you lately! I know what you mean though, at least about the insurance. I figured if I lost this baby that I probably had some sort of problem carrying babies. DH has insurance, but because he works for a small business and only about 3 employees have it, it's too expensive to add me on. So if I had a terminal problem, Tanith would be it. But I got lucky! I hope you do too, and you get that bfp soon! Hugs!
Last edited by PixieQueen; June 17th, 2009 at 04:14 PM.
Reason: I am an insensitive clod. :(
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June 17th, 2009, 11:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: New York
Posts: 2,872
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welcome back!
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June 18th, 2009, 05:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Nebraska
Posts: 4,225
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Hi Heather! I remember you too from when I joined right after my 2nd loss. I took a break for a while too because of work commitments. Then, I lost my position which may be a blessing in disguise because I have a much more relaxed schedule. Only 8 hours a day instead of 12! Now I'm back TTC. DH and I are at the very end of our first cycle TTC after last loss. I think I'm out this cycle...a few days will tell.
Glad to see you again!
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June 19th, 2009, 03:35 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Somerville, Ma
Posts: 788
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Thanks for all the kind words ladies. AF showed today...So, onto the next cycle. I am going to South Carolina in 2 weeks, which means DF and I will be apart on O time. So, here I come August  I am feeling a lot better and so happy to be back. Love all of you!!!
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June 20th, 2009, 03:26 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,055
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Hello Heather welcome back I am also one of the girls who crossed over from another forum I totally understand your frustration I have a DD9 and a DS 8 I conceived them very easily It took forever to fall with my third (I hadn't been on any type of contraception since DS)which ended in m/c in Feb I really look forward to getting to know you hun.
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June 20th, 2009, 05:40 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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Hi Heather  I'm glad you're back. I'm still here.
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