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June 18th, 2009, 02:33 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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How long did it take you to get pregnant after your loss?...
Our loss was in February, we waited 3 cycles, and have been actively TTC for two..... Steve thinks I should of already been pregnant by now  ..... I dont know what else he wants me to do..... I'm trying here.  and maybe I'm just being a little impatient or should I say "He" is being a little impatient.
Just curious how long it took to get your BFP?
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June 18th, 2009, 02:39 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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men are so impatient
We waited 2 cycles after our D&C (which turned out to be like 3 1/2 months given how long it took to get AF after the D&C)...and I got pregnant on our 3rd cycle trying.
Good luck, i'm sure your BFP is just around the corner and I can't wait to celebrate it
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June 18th, 2009, 04:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Im of no help, but we got pregnant the next month after our m/c. Im really thinking I might not have a problem, that something just wasnt right with our little one. But we have been NTNP for... 5 months before we got pregnant the first time. Soo it did take time for us at one point. GL hun!
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June 18th, 2009, 04:40 PM
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Hi-Tech Hippie
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It took us 3 cycles after our loss, although we didn't wait to start TTC. But it took us 9 mos to get pg with DD and 5 mos with our loss, so it can take some time. I think the time just draaaags after a loss, so it seems even longer.
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June 18th, 2009, 05:23 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Don't know if I qualify as recently pregnant but thought I'd answer anyway. My first loss was my stillbirth last July. We waited one cycle and then got pregnant the first cycle we tried. I miscarried that pregnancy, had a regular cycle and got pregnant again the next month. That was a miscarriage as well. That was November. I didn't get pregnant in December or January and then got pregnant again in February which resulted in my 4th loss/3rd miscarriage. The next cycle I started progesterone and Lovenox at 3dpo and once again got pregnant and am now 18w1d
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June 18th, 2009, 05:34 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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our first preg was conceived 1st cycle NTNP. Lost that one in July 08. Fell preg again in Dec 08. Lost that one in Jan 09. We started ttc again straight away but have still not fallen preg. We had to sit last month out as I was getting testing for recurrent m/c but we are back to it this month and hoping that our"forever baby" bfp isnt' too for away
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June 18th, 2009, 08:14 PM
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Super Mom to Six
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Location: Missouri
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With my first miscarriage I waited 3 cycles then got pregnant that 1st month trying.Currently I'm 5w3d past d&c,so I'm still waiting to see if I get pregnant right away or not.Good Luck
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June 19th, 2009, 03:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Not sure if this helps at all but I lost my first baby in December and then got pregnant again and lost another one last month. So it took 5 months in between.
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June 19th, 2009, 04:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm not pregnant yet - now on my 4th cycle post miscarriage and this will be my 3rd cycle ttc... hoping that it happens sooner rather than later...
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June 19th, 2009, 07:31 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks girls....We had a loss last August (2008) had one cycle and ended up getting pregnant 1 month later. That resulted in the loss in February of 2009.
With two losses ,I was pregnant for soooooo long and still have no baby. I know it takes time, but it sucks and is no fair!!
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Our Trisomy 18 baby boy 2/10/2009 @20.1 weeks
McKenna Claire 3-12-2010
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June 19th, 2009, 07:57 AM
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Mom of 4
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It took me 3 cycles to get a BFP again. But then we lost that one too. Good luck hope it will happen soon for you!!
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June 19th, 2009, 08:04 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I had my surgery in January to remove the cyst (loss before that was in December). I got pregnant on cycle 4 after they came back. First one we didin't do anything special, then the next two were Clomid/IUI the 4th was injectables/IUI.
Before my surgery I had a loss in July then two cycles later had a BFP, then lost that one, then the second cycle after that I got the BFP that I lost on Christmas.
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June 19th, 2009, 08:19 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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wow these girls got preggo fast!! I just got preggers and next month will be a year since my loss! So it took me almost year to get pregnant again so dont give up!!
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June 19th, 2009, 10:14 AM
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I got pg the first cycle NTNP and miscarried in Dec. It took 3 months for me to have a regular cycle. I got pg after that 1 cycle and knock on wood, its been a healthy pregnancy. I wish you lots of luck!
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June 19th, 2009, 10:20 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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I had my loss in Jan... d/e Feb 6th I am now 4 cycles..... and counting... We had been trying since July... Had my first bfp in Nov.. chemical.. two cycles than bfp Jan 2nd...
We all know how frustrating it is... Hang in their.... our time will come... hopefully soon!!
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