Thanks everyone. all your input is making my decision alot easier.
It looks like we'll probably do shared care with my gp and go with the public hospital as the public hospital that my ob delivers at I'm not very confident with, I rang them yesterday and about a maternity ward tour and they were very rude to me and since posting yesterday have heard some reviews that aren't great. It will depend on the cost of the private but I'm predicting that it is going to be too much.
Thanks so much for all your help
While I'm here I was just wondering if anybody could tell me if there is a place where everybody goes just to post to each other about general stuff. I came from bb because of all the probs there but I'm having a lot of troubles getting used to this site, as great as it is! I'm not finding it so easy to use and feel really lost without my regular chats to the girls, if any one can guide me a little that would be greatly appreciated

as I've got no idea!!