Log In Sign Up

AF Vent!


Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!
Reply Post New Topic
  LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
June 24th, 2009, 01:56 PM
Veteran
Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 232
So this is our 1st month ttc after our m/c in April. We got a clear surge for 2 days on opks and made sure to dtd. I even felt ovulation...thought we had a good shot. I had some cramping a week later and thought maybe implatation... AF is due today/tomorrow and I've been testing since monday...all BFN. Today I've been bloated and have cramps and some yellow cm...i wish she would just SHOW UP! GRRRR! I hate this in-between feeling! I hate TTC!

Anyway, thanks for listening...
__________________

************************************************** ********
OUR TTC JOURNEY
10/04 - Off BCP and started TTC on our own
08/05 - Started Chlomid w/ IUI - did several with ob/gyn - all BFN
03/06 - First RE pppt
04/06 - Another IUI with RE - BFN
05/06-06/06 - DH's varicocele surgery to treat low count/motility/morphology and my lap to remove minor endo and cyst on left tube
08/06 - IUI w/inj - BFN
11/06 - IVF #1 - BFP...but ruptured ectopic - emergency surgery to remove left fillopian tube
02/07-03/07 - Appt with new RE and yet another IUI - BFN
05/07 - IVF #2 - BFP!!!!! Our beautiful son was born on 02/27/2008
12/08 - Suprise BFP...but low beta #'s...miscarriage =(
03/09 - Getting ready for IVF#3 but... ANOTHER SUPRISE BFP???!!! 9dpo! Heartbeat at 6 weeks!
04/09 - No HB at 9.5 week US. D&C 4/15. I'm devastated and feel like I have nothing left.
05/09 - First AF after m/c on 5/24. Back on the TTC trail...ho-hum
02/10 - Back to the RE for Clomid/IUI ... BFN
03/10 - Started BCP for IVF in APRIL!!! I haven't been this excited in ages!

4/14/2010 - RETRIEVAL DAY!!!! 28 EGGS/ 18 mature/13 fertilized!!!
4/17/2010 - Transfer of a 8-cell grade 1-2 AND a 7-cell grade 1 ... 10 three-day embies on ice
6dp3dt - squinter-BFP on Answer
9dp3dt - Beta #1 = 65
11dp3dt - Beta #2 = 218
1st Sono 5/7 - 7mm gestational sac with visible yolk sac
2nd Sono 5/14 - 111 bpm CRL 4.6mm
3rd Sono 5/21 - 142 bpm CRL 12.8 mm
4th Sono 5/28 - 170 bpm CRL 18.5 mm
5th Sono 6/7 - 170 bpm CRL 26.2 mm
NT Scan 6/28 - Beautiful Baby!!!!
 THE LORD HEARD OUR PRAYER
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #2  
June 24th, 2009, 02:13 PM
megal40's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,853
The TTW is hard enough-- let alone your first cycle after a m/c. I was pretty much a mess that cycle. Try to hang in there. Things with your body still might not be "back to normal." Hopefully it is EPS and not PMS.

KUP!
__________________


Last edited by megal40; June 24th, 2009 at 02:15 PM.
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #3  
June 24th, 2009, 02:21 PM
Super Mommy
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Ohio
Posts: 982
Sorry your body is sending you so many different signs....why does this have to be so hard! I know the feeling though, if AF is going to show, just get it over with and make your apprearance.
__________________
Laura

Check out Tori's Caring Bridge Page for her latest updates: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/toririesenberg

Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #4  
June 24th, 2009, 02:26 PM
Loving6's Avatar Super Mom to Six
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Missouri
Posts: 11,336
I'm sorry your AF is being a B,but she's good at that.I hope either way you finf out quickly.
__________________
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #5  
June 24th, 2009, 02:29 PM
missy123's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
Posts: 13,228
I am sorry you are feeling this way, I did also. Actually we immediately started TTC after our loss. We used a condom once, and we did not try to prevent after that.

I was crazy last month and when AF arrived I cried a little. This month we were away from each other so I am just hoping the witch shows up on time so we can try in a few weeks!
__________________

Pregnancy Loss April 2009, September 2010 CP 10/2008, 1/3/11
Mommy to 4 Children - 3 boys ages 20, 19 and 16 & baby Scarlett
After 2.5 years TTC with 4 losses our Family is now complete.

Scarlett Muriel Born 11/18/2011 7lbs 10oz 21 inches long
Thank you .:Shortcake:. for my awesome siggy!!
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #6  
June 24th, 2009, 03:18 PM
.:Shortcake:.'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
Sorry things aren't going well for you! I hope its EPS instead of AF symptoms!
__________________

Thank you Jaidynsmum for my lovely siggy!
My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11


Want a siggy in a hurry? Check out my Siggy Express Lane

Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #7  
June 24th, 2009, 06:22 PM
Trish36's Avatar Mom of 4
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 8,497
Don't give up hope yet. It's not over until AF shows.
__________________


Project 365 - 2012: http://trisha2012.wordpress.com/


Thank you Jaidynsmum for my awesome siggy!
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #8  
June 24th, 2009, 08:53 PM
Boble's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,716
*hugs* hun.. ttc is such a hard road
__________________
Bel
Me: 28 DH: 34 DS: 10 DD: born 14th June 2010 3 angels 11/00. 07/08. 01/09


Thank you kiliki for my gorgeous siggy!
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #9  
June 25th, 2009, 06:26 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Feb 2006
Posts: 232
AF showed this morning. This cycle took everything out of me...*sigh*...i guess on to next month... I just don't know how much more bumpy this road can get...
__________________

************************************************** ********
OUR TTC JOURNEY
10/04 - Off BCP and started TTC on our own
08/05 - Started Chlomid w/ IUI - did several with ob/gyn - all BFN
03/06 - First RE pppt
04/06 - Another IUI with RE - BFN
05/06-06/06 - DH's varicocele surgery to treat low count/motility/morphology and my lap to remove minor endo and cyst on left tube
08/06 - IUI w/inj - BFN
11/06 - IVF #1 - BFP...but ruptured ectopic - emergency surgery to remove left fillopian tube
02/07-03/07 - Appt with new RE and yet another IUI - BFN
05/07 - IVF #2 - BFP!!!!! Our beautiful son was born on 02/27/2008
12/08 - Suprise BFP...but low beta #'s...miscarriage =(
03/09 - Getting ready for IVF#3 but... ANOTHER SUPRISE BFP???!!! 9dpo! Heartbeat at 6 weeks!
04/09 - No HB at 9.5 week US. D&C 4/15. I'm devastated and feel like I have nothing left.
05/09 - First AF after m/c on 5/24. Back on the TTC trail...ho-hum
02/10 - Back to the RE for Clomid/IUI ... BFN
03/10 - Started BCP for IVF in APRIL!!! I haven't been this excited in ages!

4/14/2010 - RETRIEVAL DAY!!!! 28 EGGS/ 18 mature/13 fertilized!!!
4/17/2010 - Transfer of a 8-cell grade 1-2 AND a 7-cell grade 1 ... 10 three-day embies on ice
6dp3dt - squinter-BFP on Answer
9dp3dt - Beta #1 = 65
11dp3dt - Beta #2 = 218
1st Sono 5/7 - 7mm gestational sac with visible yolk sac
2nd Sono 5/14 - 111 bpm CRL 4.6mm
3rd Sono 5/21 - 142 bpm CRL 12.8 mm
4th Sono 5/28 - 170 bpm CRL 18.5 mm
5th Sono 6/7 - 170 bpm CRL 26.2 mm
NT Scan 6/28 - Beautiful Baby!!!!
 THE LORD HEARD OUR PRAYER
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
  #10  
June 25th, 2009, 04:01 PM
Kary♥RN's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
Send a message via AIM to Kary♥RN Send a message via Yahoo to Kary♥RN
Sorry for af..... I can tell you the first cycle after my m/c was an emotional roller coaster... and when AF showed I was crushed, devastated... I felt like my body had let me down and betrayed me all over again.. I didn't understand how people could go on cycle after cycle after a loss not to get pregnant. How do they do it?? Here I sit going to start cycle 5, it has been almost 6 months since my loss. Just know understand your sigh.... It does take alot out of you... when you feel like you did everything you could of!! HUGS
__________________

Thank you GraysMama For my BEAUTIFUL Siggy!!!


BFP 11/09/08 M/C 11/11/08 BFP 01/02/09 M/C 01/29/09 BFP 08/26/09 M/C 10/02/09 Missing our 3 Angles
Reply With Quote
Bookmark and Share
Reply

« . July Angelversarys & Due Dates . | Trying to Conceive after Loss | Wow, I suck... »
Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes
Linear Mode Linear Mode

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 03:27 AM.

Contact Us - JustMommies - Archive - Privacy Statement - Top

Copyright © 2003-2011 JustMommies.com, All Rights Reserved.
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0