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June 26th, 2009, 01:30 PM
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I know I wasn't very active on here, but I probably will be now. I found out that I was pregnant on monday, had a weak positive on tuesday and that I was only 3w4d. Well today my tests got lighter and I went to the ER.
I seriously dislike this dr. He was rude to DH when he came up there. They did an ultrasound, bloodwork, and a urine test. I'm 4w today and my level was only 19. He said I miscarried (which I didn't really understand the miscarried part since it hasn't happened yet). I have a little bit of cramping no spotting or bleeding.
*6/27
I started spotting and i'm cramping so i'm guessing that it's ending. 
Last edited by hearts.0nfire; June 27th, 2009 at 06:28 AM.
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June 26th, 2009, 02:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry that you are going through this Erica. Are you supposed to go back in a couple of days for another blood draw?
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June 26th, 2009, 02:21 PM
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Super Mom to Six
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I'm sorry,it's so frustrating not knowing what's going to happen and if everything is okay.You will be in my t&p's.
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June 26th, 2009, 03:26 PM
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Super Mommy
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I'm sorry you are going through this. Can you call your regular doctor for a follow up appointment or call and see if he can get the ER record and explain things to you?
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June 26th, 2009, 04:10 PM
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I am so sorry you have to be in limbo... not knowing is so hard. You and your bean will be in my thoughts and prayers.. hugs
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June 26th, 2009, 04:15 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry your going through this. Your in my T&P!
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June 26th, 2009, 04:41 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KDD
Are you supposed to go back in a couple of days for another blood draw?
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I'm suppose to go in on Monday to get a blood test so they said they'll check me out then.
I did infact take another test this afternoon (different brand then the other ones) and it was about a tad bit lighter from yesterday, but it was much darker then any of the morning tests (since they both looked incredibly faint).
I'm still so confused with this too because i'm not having any cramping or spotting. Since I never explained on here, I got 3 faint bfps on monday, tuesday had a blood test with a " weak positive" like it was nearly too early since I was 3w 4d. Is it possible that maybe it has doubled and I had just had a really super sensitive tests? I know i'm really pulling at straws here...I just don't want it to happen.
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June 28th, 2009, 02:23 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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No spotting or cramping I recommend you see your regular DR and goodluck with your bloods I pray they are good!!!! It's only very early hopefully that's why the levels were low  Goodluck!!!
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June 28th, 2009, 04:45 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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You are in my thoughts and prayers
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June 28th, 2009, 05:21 AM
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Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry, I wish there was more I could say to make this easier. I hope your stay here is a short one. Take care of yourself!
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June 28th, 2009, 06:24 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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i'm praying for you and your little one girl!!!
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June 29th, 2009, 08:28 AM
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I"m so sorry hun! That is what happened to me. I got my BFP, but the line was farily faint and it didn't get any lighter. I had 3 bt to check the beta and it was 16 on 11dpo, 22 14dpo and then back to 16 on 16dpo. then I started bleeding the next day. HUGS!!!
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June 29th, 2009, 02:12 PM
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Sorry to hear you are going through this. I think it is best to get more bloods done. It is so early & a feint positive, is still a positive. The spotting & cramping can be 'normal' in pg. My cousin had spotting & cramping on & off for the first trimester and went on to a full term pg & had a healthy DD. Fingers crossed for you - stick little one.
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June 29th, 2009, 05:19 PM
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I am sorry for your loss. 
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June 29th, 2009, 05:34 PM
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I had bleeding and cramping the entire first trimester with Matthew. Hopefully you have some answers soon. I hope your next betas come back really high! 
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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June 29th, 2009, 05:59 PM
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thank you guys. I don't think it would though. My pregnancy test was negative and from what i've gone through since saturday I definitely know i've miscarried.
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June 29th, 2009, 06:02 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Awww hon I am so sorry
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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June 29th, 2009, 08:21 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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So sorry...I hope you're doing OK. Keep us updated as to how you're doing and what they do as follow up. You're in my T &Ps!
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June 30th, 2009, 10:14 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry you are going through this. I will be praying for you and your DH.
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June 30th, 2009, 10:24 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I just read your update I am so sorry hun hugs.
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