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June 30th, 2009, 06:04 PM
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Hi ladies,
i had my 3rd loss in april, we had the wee one tested and were told it could take about 2 to 3 months for the results to come back.
I phoned the doc's today, just to see if anything had turned up, and was tod that they had send the results of the pathology test to my familiy doc's last week.
So i phoned there and they told me that they did not have the report in my chart, but that it might be in my doc's mail. My doc will not be back in the office until friday.
They will have had this report for at least 4-6 days and nobody has bothered to call me.
This is so important to me, it will help to decide if we are going to try again.
My dh is as cool calm and collected as you can be about this, i could chew iron and spit nails!!!!!!!!
Is this unresonable of me??
I need to know why i lost the last wee one, they have part of the answer but could not be asked to phone??/?
Thanks for letting me rant, i think i will go and cry myself to sleep.
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June 30th, 2009, 06:23 PM
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I am so sorry that you have to go through this. My ob was the one who got the results and gave them to me at our 2 week check up. I am supprised that the results would go to your family doc... and not your ob give you the results... HUGS that you know have to wait longer... I would be pee'd off and spitting nails also!!
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June 30th, 2009, 06:35 PM
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I'm sorry that you have to wait. There are definitely downfalls to our healthcare system. I hope that the results give you some answers.
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June 30th, 2009, 07:16 PM
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I am sorry they did not call you. I would be very upset also. But then again I am impatient about everything!
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June 30th, 2009, 08:59 PM
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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. That sucks!! How frustrating...people just don't realize how much test results can mean to someone else.
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June 30th, 2009, 09:33 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this. I hate that you have to call for results and bug them when they should call you.

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July 1st, 2009, 03:35 AM
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I would be very frustrated if the results were just 'hanging around' somewhere and no one was calling you.
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July 1st, 2009, 03:58 AM
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That's horrible it doesn't take much for them to make one phone call I would question that also. Goodluck KUP (men are good at acting cool lol)
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Hun you have every right to be upset that is terrible. I would screaming to and demanding my results. Hugs hun.
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July 1st, 2009, 07:08 AM
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Thank you so much for your support!!!
I do not know what i would do without it!!
As for the doc, i will just have to wait and iam still very angry...
but theres nothing i can do...
Thanks again!
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