I am sorry that you have to join this group but we are here for you.

As far as your doctor not doing a loss panel...that is a bunch of poo. I have learned one thing after my loss, I will be in control during my next pregnancy. I had the same loss panel done on me after I had my little girl and we did find that I have a blood clotting disorder. It would have been nice to have known this before hand. I personally think they should do more testing on women as soon as they find out they are pregnant or if they plan on it. This might lower the # of pregnancy losses.