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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Nebraska
Posts: 4,225
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I bought a pack of OPKs about a week ago but wasn't planning to use them for at least one more cycle. Well, DH went out for a run today and I was supposed to be doing homework (instead I was on JM). And I had the brillant idea to go try out one of my OPKs. I was sure it was WAY early for me...I think I didn't ovulate until CD 19 last month. But, I went and POAS and I got a SMILEY FACE (i love digitals). My first try! I'm sooooo excited.
Question: Should I worry too much about trying to entice DH to the bedroom during the day today? Or do you ladies think tonight would be fine? (DH is kinda a funny guy sometimes about DTD in the middle of the day when he is trying to be productive.) Help! What to do...
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nakmaster
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Western NY
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Have you been DTD up until today? I was aggressive with my BD....we DTD before bed every night until I got my positive OPK and then we switched to the late afternoon & DH came home for "lunch" the next day for some afternoon delight. We did 2 more "insurance" BD's the next two evenings. I figured by switching to the afternoons we were getting double coverage, hehe.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Nebraska
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We have been DTD but in the morning...and then of course, we didn't DTD this morning. So last time was now more than 24 hours ago. Crud..I hope I didn't mess this one up. I really just didn't expect to O so early in my cycle.
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nakmaster
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Western NY
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Well you O 12 to 36 hours AFTER a positive OPK....so don't worry. Honestly, I would try to get a BD in this afternoon and then keep up in the morning until its negative...and then the "insurance" BD's, hehe.
We went serious about DTD....I haven't felt like DTD again until recently, hahaha.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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You should be okay by BD'ing tonight, but if you can, why not suggest dessert before dinner tonight?
Good luck!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Nebraska
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grrrr...just as I suspected....DH pushed me off. Rejected! (well, sort of). Somehow, DH convinced me that I should workout first and my reward would be DTD later. It just so happens it's 90 degrees here today. So, 1 hour and 7 miles later...I'm DEAD. So now it's me who will have to muster the energy for later tonight.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Canada
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 Kimberly!
Good luck catching that eggy, Liz!! Here's some BFP  
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Posts: 1,571
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Ah Liz! Why aren't men ever on the same page as us??!?! Take a nap so you're ready for some fireworks tonight! Good luck!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Rochester NY
Posts: 12,260
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hope you found the energy to catch that eggie!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,853
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Good luck hun! I hope this is your month. I was the same way but my O was later than expected. Got to love OPK tests!!
KUP.....
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: PA
Posts: 8,385
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I hope you caught that eggie!!!!! WHOOO HOOO yea for the  !!!!!!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Tasmania
Posts: 1,250
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Good luck, hope you caught that egg!
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Veteran
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: El Paso, TX
Posts: 308
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GL...hope you were able to catch the eggie.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: WA
Posts: 2,361
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MEN!! Haha! Hope you guys got down to business and caught that egg!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Nebraska
Posts: 4,225
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Oh jeeze...what a night. My "UPDATE" is that DH and I got into a nice little fight last night. I ended up sleeping in the guest room because he was being a punk. We'll today we made up and had make-up sex (the best kind). BUT, I took another opk and got another Smiley Face this afternoon. I know it's not impossible to get 2 in a row, but now I'm also worried I might just be one of those women who have high LH all the time (I have PCOS). So now, I'm beginning to not trust that smiley face. I believe I'm losing my mind...I'll give it one more day for the opks and see how tomorrow's looks. I am officially sinking into TTC insanity.
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